My incel friends are incel because they aim for smv that are too high or they are video game/ netflix addict.
They dont even try to get in shape or dress well, it is sad. They are ok living a mediocre life.
I see this all the time women have very strong motivation to loose weight and improve while men are not. my explanation is that women get a better tier of men with each improvement while men not .
I have a couple of incels, some of them lack social awareness and some are very socially awared but deep inside they lack motivation to look better and loose weight .
It is hard to say to a man who got rejected for year and have no enjoyment in life to stop playing games or to go to gym.
I feel like my buddies are hitting the wall, they don't want to go out as much
If they are that good looking most likely they have some action but keep it secret to themselves , back to your question , I have two incels one of them I stopped talking with him as he is very blue pilled, the other one I want to sit with him and suggest to him to start fresh start, he is currently trucker , spending all his time and weekend working, and use that as an excuse why he cannot find a woman, he is over weight, even though he bough many gym machines and already registered in expensive gym , but he lack motivation to really loose weight.