"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do you have girlfriend?

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.. hi DJ's.. I like to ask some advice or tips about this " if a girl will ask you- DO YOU HAVE GIRLFRIEND?"... Of course we want to have edge from other guys here,, can give me some of your favorite C & f lines in dealing with this kind of question?.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Her: Do you have a girlfriend?

You: Yea, I got a few. Why, are you looking for a application?
 

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Her: Do you have a girlfriend?
You: No, but I have a boyfriend.

or

Her: Do you have a girlfriend?
You: Whoa whoa, coming on a little strong. I was just talking and you bust this one out? We should take it slower (with a playful smile)
 

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