"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do You Have Dominance Body Language?

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The body language cues that the dominant person uses are these:

Directs and controls the conversation.
Freely asks questions and expects a response back but gives little or no self-disclosure.
Stands with hands on hips, elbows out to sides. Takes up more personal space that way and wants to look bigger.
Stands or sits taller than others on purpose.
Freely interrupts others speaking. (Others don't interrupt.)
Long pause when answering a door knock, or replying to someone. Makes others wait.
Freely touches others. (Others don't touch back.)
Will stare at others and demand attention. (Others don't do the same back.)
Never breaks eye contact first. Others usually break eye contact first by looking down, signifying submission.
Occupies a bigger personal space and crowds others on purpose.
Takes the lead purposefully when walking and going through doors.
While sitting, will put hands behind head, put feet on desk, remove eye glasses and put ear-piece in mouth, or turn chair away from others and stare out window.
If not well socialized, will eat and talk at same time while others can't eat.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Listen up, outgoing girls that get a lot of attention from guys, the HB8+s that hate wusses. Be an ALPHA male and show dominance(east-europian style) ask more talk less, be mysterious and indefference about her. seduce her with ATTRACTION and CHARM and you'll be succesfull.

I can tell coz I had interest from these girls but f*cked up in the past of bein AFC, all their current boyfriends don't give a sh*t bout them and are like the text above.

The last thing in your list you mentioned is just not good mannered btw. Never talk and chew at the same time around woman, they dislike that.. youll remind her of her lil annoying bro which will turn her off
 
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I need to work on sharing less, is that a huge turn off? I sometimes talk a bit and tell them a lot about myself or experiences.
 
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Groverz said:
I need to work on sharing less, is that a huge turn off? I sometimes talk a bit and tell them a lot about myself or experiences.
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I have the same problem
 
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