"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you have a type?

thegator39

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It seems I'm only attracted to certain women.

- Women with dark hair/dark eyes (Winona Ryder, Rachel Weisz, Catherine Bell, Roz from Frasier types.)

- Women with big blue or green eyes, regardless of hair color.

Think women like Gillian Anderson and Heather Graham or Christina Ricci.

- Women with innocent, accessible looking faces (Note: I know full well that an innocent nice face doesn't equal purity or that she isn't a snob, but I like the look and have also found that it severely lessens the chances of b*tchiness.)

- Women in general that have an average build and slight curves. They don't have the Gisele, no curves, stick look, and they don't look out of shape either.

Pretty much these are the only type of women I've ever gravitated to, at least the past 5 or so years when I stopped liking the AWs.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maxtro

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I'm attracted to women with youthful, almost innocent pretty faces, thin but not too skinny, C or better breasts, long hair and a decent ass. Bree Olson is a good example, though she's not exactly innocent :p

Race doesn't matter that much but I lean towards white and Japanese girls. Black and Latina is also an option.
 

K-man

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Oh yes! Tall, a bit on the curvy side.
Long legs.
Long hair.
Freckles is a definite plus.
Very feminine in the way she dresses. No jeans, no tight....skirts that show those long legs.......
:up: :up:
 

Anquetil

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I like a woman who's deeply cynical and very sarcastic. Ambitious, confident... and with a tragic view of life. A woman who is well spoken, from a good family, and knows rap lyrics. A woman who teases me and calls me out when I'm in the wrong.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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backbreaker

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athletic slim leggy women. short hair is a plus. defiantly a leg man.
 

J. Darko

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I'm a attracted to girls who are playful, energetic and optimistic.
 

SandHawk

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Redheads, preferably a bit short and nice and curvy. I used to dig all the skinny chicks back in the day, but when they pack a little bit of extra meat, it is actually a lot hotter. I said a BIT of meat, none of that chubby or fat ones.

And I prefer blue eyes. Blue eyes ALL the way.
 

saab1981

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I tend to always go for small brunettes, either long, wavy dark brown hair or jet black, probably about size 12-14, I like a curvy ass and hips! I like earthy, kooky girls, who are interested in more than just clubbing and drinking. Although that can be cool if they have other outside interests too!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blue183

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nope i love women of all looks, and and shapes, as long as they are not fat.
 

Poonani Maker

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She must have hair at least down to her shoulders. Don't care about the color. She must smell good always. She must have a decent European (my heritage) face. Don't really care about eye color, but prefer blue (like mine). She must have nice feminine hands. She must not smoke. She must have firm un-breastfed breasts, preferably 36Cs. She must have no warts and minimal freckles or moles. She must not be more than 135 lbs. She must not be taller than 5'10." She must be flexible to be willing to do any position I try to maneuver her into, namely reverse cowgirl. She must have no, or One minimal inch-long tattoo. Her pvssy must be tiny to normal, none of that big stretched pvssy stuff. She must have a girly vulnerable voice tone, none of that harsh sailor voiced sh!t. She don't have to know too much, but I would like a little intelligence or capacity to learn what I tell her. She must wipe her as5 thoroughly before sex.
 
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