"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you have a question? - Read this before making a new thread.

B-Lemond

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Alright, listen up chopeys.

All of you guys that are starting new threads based on your specific situation, you aren't helping your DJ skills.

First off: The questions are just.....well, just look at them. I mean, c'mon.

Second: With the advice you are given, you are only getting the fish.

You aren't being taught how to fish.

What would you rather do:

1) Depend on someone to give you the fish?
2) Learn how to fish.

Actually learning how to fish is more benificial to YOU, than being given the fish!


Do you want to learn how to fish?
Follow me then:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/default.htm
http://www.pickupguide.com/
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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B-Lemond

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Look at all these USELESS, POINTLESS, and REPETATIVE threads.

:confused:

What's the point?
Why make these threads?
Why respond to these threads?


JUST STOP! This is all becoming a big waste of TIME!


What are you here for?


To LEARN.
To learn something read the DJ Bible. DON'T make a new thread to ask something stupid that you just thought about.


We are all here to become DJs.
Are you a DJ?




HEEEEL NO! You are not.


The fact is that most of them are GONE and we are left with a bunch of KBDJ and AFCs.


Challenge

Do not post for a week.

See how much you get done.

You should be out in the field improving.

OR

Read the DJ Bible Especially Focus on Weapons of Mass Seduction

Do something productive and LEARN.


-------Read the Stickies-------
 
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B-Lemond

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This is called a Discussion Forum.

This Discussion Forum is where you discourse about topics that are NEW to you. Something that you noticed or observed and would like to get someone else's opinion on the topic at hand.

Since you should have read The DJ Bible, there shouldn't be any repeats of the same discussions.

Everyone on this forum should start posting with the same amount of knowledge. That is the knowledge that is learned from The DJ Bible.

You gain more knowledge in the field. After all, The DJ Bible is a compilation of field experiences, obervations, and experimentation.

Going Sarging is where you learn that NEW knowledge.

How can you possibly be discussing things in a forum, if you don't have any NEW information?

We already know whatever you have to say since you are just a repeat of The DJ Bible at best.

With personal Field Knowledge, you will have something to discuss. Without it, you don't belong here.

In the Field is Where You Learn!

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sooooo u made a thread exactly like mine, so u must see my point then! lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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