"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you have a method for lasting long in the sack?

Wolfgang D

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Colossus said:
I've never had a problem lasting, except for one girl in particular who was REALLY tight.

But here's some tips, I agree with Slickster too.

1. STOP pumping when you get close. Kiss, talk, or whatever.
2. Have her ride you. I find it's hard to come this way.
3. Think about something totally unrelated---like flying in an F-16 with Chewbacca and skydiving into the Swiss Alps with plasma rifles.

As long as you learn to stop for a minute when you get the first inkling of an orgasm, you'll last as long as you want.

Gotta concur with Bradd80 too that I used to care wayyy more about my performance, lol. Now, with 35ish lays and several LTRs under my belt, I dont really care. I mean I do love them well, but I'm not trying to hump them like a jackrabbit for 3 hours like I used to. Fvck that. I wanna relax.
Your imagination must be a wild place for you to come up with something like point 3 there. :)

Here is another tip: take it easy in the beginning. The longer you keep going without doing it fast, the longer you can last when you increase the speed, in my experience. Keep going too long and it will be almost impossible to come.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Colossus said:
3. Think about something totally unrelated---like flying in an F-16 with Chewbacca
Chewbacca in an F-16.....priceless!! Holy ṣhit I'm laughing my balls off!
 

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fuko2007 said:
i banged this one girl a few yers back and she has been wanting it eversince but we lived far apart. she said it was the best she ever had. she came over the other night and has a bf well i bangged her again and just got a FB message from her calling me an ******* haha.. anyway..that night i drank two 20 oz cups of jager and read bull...then drank one whole red bull to polish it off. she was recapping for me the last time we had sex she said she came 24 times and we fvcked for 31/2 hours. Be carefull tho..i thought my heart was abt to explode that night. Other than that enjoy but make sure you have a for sure lay or you will be beating you man hood aginst anything bc your so jacked up.
3 and a half hours?? WTF?
 

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Cabergoline.

It also has been suggested online that it has a possible recreational use in reducing or eliminating the male refractory period, thereby allowing men to experience multiple ejaculatory orgasms in rapid succession, and at least one scientific study supports those speculations.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cabergoline

Anyone ever tried this stuff?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zarky said:
yeah, get old ;)
I am older, that hasn't helped me much.

Really, I think a big part of it is practice. Also, I definitely think masturbating the same day helps a whole lot.

I've tried the squeezing the tip with mixed results. Definitely slowing down and even stopping right before coming really helps.

I've had some success with focusing my brain on some crazy puzzle, but then I'm completely not thinking about what I'm doing and I feel like I'm then missing out and not really taking care of me either. It needs to be a balance.

I'm gonna try focusing on more foreplay in the future.
 
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