"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do you have a lighter?
- Thread starter Nicholas
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
InnerHappiness
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If you don't, "negative, but I wouldn't mind small talk with a cutie"
Don't always be looking for the perfect line, just smile and be a normal human being.
backseatjuan
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Hb
Lets get coffe together hb
mustfirstregister
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pua: your place or mine?
p.s. you have to make EC and modulate your voice.
Best place to pull on a night out is the fag shelter, even if you don't smoke (like me). Just take a lighter and stand outside with your mates to get fresh air. A bird is bound to ask for a lighter and there you are, a chance to start conversation.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
doctorj
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"sorry. i usually dont date smokers"
"nice pickup line. but please dont tell me now that you love my blue eyes, that would be too cheesy"
or while lighting her cig simply ask her a question. about the place, about what she is doing, make an observation (about her) , anythin like that