That's like saying because of hunger, there are fat people.dreamx_not_afc said:And because of sluts their is AIDS![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's like saying because of hunger, there are fat people.dreamx_not_afc said:And because of sluts their is AIDS![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Critical mass of lays... lol... makes sense XPeverywomanshero said:I have never used the term slut to a woman in my entire life. I just don't think one's sexuality is any reflection of the person's worth. I think any guy who thinks that way has failed to meet the critical mass of lays. Search for critical lay to find my theory on this.
Exactly what I was thinking... but I was too lazy to type all of that I guessbackbreaker said:damn, you are true to your name aren't you?
And herein lies the problem with alot of you.
This isn't a moral crusade against women.
I guarantee you if a HB9 meet you one day, and was happy to jump in the sack with you, you would be claming her praises to how great of a woman she is.
You have to take life for what it is. I like sex. Women like sex as well. What is the freakin big deal? Why take **** so damn seriously?
if a woman wants to have sex with multiple partners, so be it. I can have sex with mulitple partners as well (and do).. that way, we both have a great understanding of each other.
Is she a slut? What exactly is a slut? Lets say for arguements sake she is a slut.
....Okay now what?
We have now established that she likes sexual encounters with different men. Does that make her any lESS of a woman?
Jealousy is an extremely strong mind altering state.
Only human beings, insecure ones at that would call a female a slut for having sex wtih someone besides them.
It's natural for a woman to want to have sex with whoever she finds attractive. The harsh reality is, that if she isn't having sex with you, you probably don't do it for her.
Even sluts like to think they are good girls, and when they find someone that pushes their buttons, won't cheat, unless that guy pushes her buttons more. However, if you are on your game and know what you are dealing with, you know that she is a slut, and not to take it personal.
In my experience, some of the best times I have had with women have been with girls you might classify as sluts. Memories I will never forget... getting a girl to basically jack me off while her husband is in the same room. Getting a girl to drive 30 mintues to my house in the pouring rain to have sex with me and then my two best friends. Countless BJ's in the car.
anyway, they have their place and time, just like LTR's do
Besides, doesn't ANYONE here use protection?Schmuck said:That's like saying because of hunger, there are fat people.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Truth said:I want more than just sex. If you are just looking for an easy lay and you sleep around, then sluts are perfect for you.
hahahahahIt's like s.luts have ADD of the vagina. They can't stay focused on one d!ck, they have to have a buffet.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.