"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do you guys turn down too many girls?

garruk

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went clubbing last night and i was dancing with a bunch of different girls. every time i danced with one i knew i could easily escalate and have a good chance of taking her home. each time though, i thought to myself, nah this girl is not hot enough and i just left her after a little while and moved onto anotehr girl.

at the end of my night, i was left with no girl at all lol.


do you ever feel like your standards are too high? there was only 1 girl i woulda pursued but she was the first girl i started talking to that night and i never saw her again after our first conversation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigneil

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Of course. I only go for HB8+ so I normally only have 2 steady gf's per year. I pass up 9 out of 10 opportunities I have. Single-hood is almost a self-normalizing state: once girls make themselves available you become pickier. Quality versus quantity. Your confidence will grow if you are constantly passing up lesser women. Other women will take notice. How else can you establish prizability?
 

Masculinity

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I do it all the time. I actually make it a goal to hangout with one or two though; don't get TOO picky. I only do 7.5's and above. I rather go home alone than go home with an unattractive girl.
 
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