Was kinda wondering since I met this cool girl that happens to be a stripper (no, I didn't meet her in a strip club, never go to those). Kinda got me thinking whether or not I would be alright with the girl I'm dating stripping for other guys. What's your thoughts?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do you guys think you could date a stripper?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Son of anarchy
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It happened to me and it wasnt a problem,actually the fact that she get undressed in front of men but in a controlled environment made me more relaxed about her.
She was hot and she felt attractive because of them so there was no reason to go with other man apart me to feel desired.
Well i wouldnt care everyway since it was just a girlfriend but many men can feel jelous about it,the very good point is that a stripper must be in shape so there is no risk to end up with a marshmallow man in few months.
It depend on you actually because what is fine for a libertine is not for a conservative men,it work both ways.
She was hot and she felt attractive because of them so there was no reason to go with other man apart me to feel desired.
Well i wouldnt care everyway since it was just a girlfriend but many men can feel jelous about it,the very good point is that a stripper must be in shape so there is no risk to end up with a marshmallow man in few months.
It depend on you actually because what is fine for a libertine is not for a conservative men,it work both ways.
pjtheman
Don Juan
keep going out with her, at the very least she won't ask you if she looks fat
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
If she's hot, then no problem. Not likely to be LTR material until she gives up the job though, if ever.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
One of the best girlfriend's in the world, trust me. Sexy and loyal. They never play away at work or in a bar or club; they've heard it all before so much they're numb to anything but you. Everyone else is white noise. And boy when they play, they sure know how to grind... Step up son.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Who's the spider and who's the fly in this scenario?
I recommend zero emotional investment in a stripper. Besides the stripping, there's almost always an extremely fvcked up life behind it (hardcore drug abuse, prostitution, a small army of scumbags she fvcks for drugs, STD worries, etc.).
That is the reality of the life they have chosen. Maybe a few of them actually are med students, but for most, they are losers with varying degrees of toxicity to your life. Like STR8UP said, don't fall into the "She's not like that, she's DIFFERENT" trap.
So bang her, but know that you're playing with fire.
I recommend zero emotional investment in a stripper. Besides the stripping, there's almost always an extremely fvcked up life behind it (hardcore drug abuse, prostitution, a small army of scumbags she fvcks for drugs, STD worries, etc.).
That is the reality of the life they have chosen. Maybe a few of them actually are med students, but for most, they are losers with varying degrees of toxicity to your life. Like STR8UP said, don't fall into the "She's not like that, she's DIFFERENT" trap.
So bang her, but know that you're playing with fire.
imaginemypotential
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I would date a stripper, sounds fun
I wonder what tricks she knows how to do, "just wrap it up lol"< this goes for all chicks
I wonder what tricks she knows how to do, "just wrap it up lol"< this goes for all chicks
Strippers suck. I hate them...and subject them to more verbal abuse than any female should ever have to take. Which probably explains why they call me all the time trying to hang out. If you are ever nice to a stripper for any reason, they will try to milk you for everything you can give them.
One thing that is good, however, is that they do understand business. If she wants a ride somewhere, I make her detail my lexus. If I get her in a club on a list, she hooks me up with some random cute girl I picked out.
Just don't be nice. Seriously. In fact, don't be afraid to say "I hate fvcking strippers!" to her face if she tries to run game on you.
One thing that is good, however, is that they do understand business. If she wants a ride somewhere, I make her detail my lexus. If I get her in a club on a list, she hooks me up with some random cute girl I picked out.
Just don't be nice. Seriously. In fact, don't be afraid to say "I hate fvcking strippers!" to her face if she tries to run game on you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.