Was kinda wondering since I met this cool girl that happens to be a stripper (no, I didn't meet her in a strip club, never go to those). Kinda got me thinking whether or not I would be alright with the girl I'm dating stripping for other guys. What's your thoughts?
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Do you guys think you could date a stripper?
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It happened to me and it wasnt a problem,actually the fact that she get undressed in front of men but in a controlled environment made me more relaxed about her.
She was hot and she felt attractive because of them so there was no reason to go with other man apart me to feel desired.
Well i wouldnt care everyway since it was just a girlfriend but many men can feel jelous about it,the very good point is that a stripper must be in shape so there is no risk to end up with a marshmallow man in few months.
It depend on you actually because what is fine for a libertine is not for a conservative men,it work both ways.
She was hot and she felt attractive because of them so there was no reason to go with other man apart me to feel desired.
Well i wouldnt care everyway since it was just a girlfriend but many men can feel jelous about it,the very good point is that a stripper must be in shape so there is no risk to end up with a marshmallow man in few months.
It depend on you actually because what is fine for a libertine is not for a conservative men,it work both ways.
pjtheman
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keep going out with her, at the very least she won't ask you if she looks fat
Hughman
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If she's hot, then no problem. Not likely to be LTR material until she gives up the job though, if ever.
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The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Who's the spider and who's the fly in this scenario?
I recommend zero emotional investment in a stripper. Besides the stripping, there's almost always an extremely fvcked up life behind it (hardcore drug abuse, prostitution, a small army of scumbags she fvcks for drugs, STD worries, etc.).
That is the reality of the life they have chosen. Maybe a few of them actually are med students, but for most, they are losers with varying degrees of toxicity to your life. Like STR8UP said, don't fall into the "She's not like that, she's DIFFERENT" trap.
So bang her, but know that you're playing with fire.
I recommend zero emotional investment in a stripper. Besides the stripping, there's almost always an extremely fvcked up life behind it (hardcore drug abuse, prostitution, a small army of scumbags she fvcks for drugs, STD worries, etc.).
That is the reality of the life they have chosen. Maybe a few of them actually are med students, but for most, they are losers with varying degrees of toxicity to your life. Like STR8UP said, don't fall into the "She's not like that, she's DIFFERENT" trap.
So bang her, but know that you're playing with fire.
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I would date a stripper, sounds fun
I wonder what tricks she knows how to do, "just wrap it up lol"< this goes for all chicks
I wonder what tricks she knows how to do, "just wrap it up lol"< this goes for all chicks
Strippers suck. I hate them...and subject them to more verbal abuse than any female should ever have to take. Which probably explains why they call me all the time trying to hang out. If you are ever nice to a stripper for any reason, they will try to milk you for everything you can give them.
One thing that is good, however, is that they do understand business. If she wants a ride somewhere, I make her detail my lexus. If I get her in a club on a list, she hooks me up with some random cute girl I picked out.
Just don't be nice. Seriously. In fact, don't be afraid to say "I hate fvcking strippers!" to her face if she tries to run game on you.
One thing that is good, however, is that they do understand business. If she wants a ride somewhere, I make her detail my lexus. If I get her in a club on a list, she hooks me up with some random cute girl I picked out.
Just don't be nice. Seriously. In fact, don't be afraid to say "I hate fvcking strippers!" to her face if she tries to run game on you.
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