Do you guys think sex is overrated?

[PeasantPlayer]

Asking this question to my guys in my teens early twenties would of got me the side eye balking look, but I been wondering lately do you guys think sex is overrated? Is it really the end all be all of human experience? Are there things you enjoy in life more then sex? Does society vastly overrate it and put it on a pedestal? Explain your opinions

 

[Jetleg]

Sex is overrated no doubt. i think that in 10-20 years sex will not be that much overrated like today, because we're heading in ONS society.

i honestly sometimes just prefer watching porn than investing my time and effort in having sex.

 

[Tictac]

7,000,000,000+ people didn't show up on the planet for no reason.

Sex may or not be over-rated. But if you go by results, it is damned popular.

 

[Serenity]

Sex for the sake of sex is overrated. It's not the movement of my penis inside a vagina alone that makes it good, it's about the total feel of it that makes it great. Porn can't give that to me, hookers can't give that to me, ONS can't give that to me and masturbating can't give that to me. Fvcking a woman because I love her and she loves me will give that to me.

I enjoy other things just as much as sex. I enjoy different things at different times. It's certainly not the be all end all of human experience, those who believe that is in for a huge disappointment.

This view arises out of my core belief that good feelings is what I truly want, sex doesn't always give me that.

What society thinks can't be answered in a simple sentence or conclusion. Some people do overrate it, some people don't and some people even underrates it. You gotta be aware of how extremely much views vary in society and I don't really think anyone can safely say one thing or the other about most peoples opinions without just projecting themselves.

 

[Yewki]

Depends where you're at in life. For teenagers/younger adults, sex and other superficial things are highly valued. Why? Because we're biologically supposed to reproduce during our "prime" time. Sex has to be important, and so conveniently enough during this part of life... it is. We have elevated hormones resulting in a higher sex drive. We're psychologically insecure and are desperate for validation more so than ever. Hey, sex is important....and I desperately need validation. Badda bing, badda boom... meaning is derived through sex and babies are made. Nature is so clever.

As we get older and leave our prime reproduction years, sex is supposed to less important. And so... it is. Our sex drive lowers, courtresy decreased hormones and the simple fact repetitive experiences gradually dull the excitement. Sex loses value and we place more importance on other avenues in life. How convenient again for our species, because we're no longer quite in our prime for reproduction anymore.

And of course as we get really old, we just no longer give a sh*t about sex. Ask an 80 year old man when was the last time he masturbated or had sex, he'll probably not recall. Or he'll give you an exact year. One of the two.

 

[ubercat]

Before - yes. After - no ;-)

 

[NSX-R]

that^
I consider it to be something worth to do. It's like the award you get for winning your game with the chick

 

[logicallefty]

For those that get it very or even semi regularly, I imagine sex could easily become overrated. But ask someone who rarely gets it if ever, I imagine it's at the top of their life's priority list all the time.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sex is pretty important and maintains your masculinity. You don't realize it till you go through periods of drought.

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

Sex drive is not a choice, it's a biological imperative. Want to mitigate your sex drive? Thwart your testosterone levels.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sex drive is not a choice, it's a biological imperative. Want to mitigate your sex drive? Thwart your testosterone levels.

Want to lower your testosterone levels? Go months and months without real sex...

 

[dustmuffin]

Hmmm..do like sex. But sometimes I would rather do something else. When you aren't getting any, its important...when you are getting plenty not so important.

 

[raider87]

And of course as we get really old, we just no longer give a sh*t about sex. Ask an 80 year old man when was the last time he masturbated or had sex, he'll probably not recall. Or he'll give you an exact year. One of the two.

I worked in a nursing home a few years ago. One of the residents with dementia used to masturbate in front of me while I showered him lol. He never jizzed on me thankfully.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I would have to agree with this completely.

My buddy who's a virgin (and who said he would masterbate 5 times a day in puberty, now is at 2-3 times a day, weird how I know this) always wants pvssy. I tell him it's not ALL that, but when I go 3-4 days without sex or masterbation there's no way sex is overrated. Hell it may be the best thing in the world besides heroin, ha.

It's very important to your well-being and swagger as a masculine male...

Imagine if you went 3 months without it 3 years... Tell that virgin friend of yours the best thing he can do for success with the ladies is to go get his c0ck wet somewhere somehow.

 

[SmooveMooves]

If you have sex someone you like its great. People think you're a beta if you make connections with women. You DO NOT have to date a woman to establish a connection with her. Connections make sex more enjoyable, sorry.

It's when you have sex with tons of chicks you could a steaming flying shìt about that make it 'overrated'.

I know both sides of the coin.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If you have sex someone you like its great. People think you're a beta if you make connections with women. You DO NOT have to date a woman to establish a connection with her. Connections make sex more enjoyable, sorry.

It's when you have sex with tons of chicks you could a steaming flying shìt about that make it 'overrated'.

I know both sides of the coin.

That's awesome that you lived on both sides of the tracks and you have established that sex with someone you like is much better than non-connected sex. Some of us feel this way.

 

[Bingo-Player]

i didnt lose my virginity until i was 20 and was literally the last one in my group of freinds to lose it

the way they were all banging on about it i thought when i finally got some my head was going to fall of my shoulders

LOL

when my d1ck when in that pu$$y it was just like , FFS IS THIS IT i didnt even shoot and it was a bit of an anti climax

as i started gaining more sexual expeirence with women , i realised that sex with slores was easy come easy go, some was good some was bad

but when a woman you really really want finally lets you take her panties of and lets you inside her because she cant resist you anymore and her eyes roll in the back of her head

that is the best bit for me

 

[parkthebus]

I think it's not the specific act of penis rubbing against vagina. It's the game. The sexual tension and desire built up between you and the female makes sex good. Without that, it's a bit **** and you're just acting like a druggy needing their fix. With that, it's so much more than just sex. Remember the male brain is hardwired to achieve things and this is probably why. When you are chasing a hot female and you finally **** her, your brain is wired to feel great so you continue to do it. And it will continue to feel great as long as she creates the game.

 

[Desdinova]

I think having a female companion this day in age is overrated. They generally don't cook, don't clean, aren't feminine, are "proud of their curves", etc.

Sex is still okay. You cannot duplicate fvcking a woman, no matter how much porn you look at or how you cup your hand. You cannot overrate something you cannot duplicate.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Though I doubt anyone remembers (or cares) I've said many things on this forum regarding this subject.

Mentioning porn when speaking about sex is laughable and goes to show just how much the average man doesn't understand what sex really is.

I would go as far to say that the LEAST important part of sex is the physical act...sex is so much MORE than physical penetration.

Pornography really gripes me...watch any scene of porn. There is no build up, there is no tension, there is no anticipation...just a man pounding a woman for 30 minutes non stop with the occasional ***** licking and *******. If people think this is sex then no wonder they think sex is overrated.

I've said it before, but there is a bleak difference between the wants of a woman and the wants of a man.

Men want sex NOW, women want sex LATER.

Women experience sex the "BETTER" way IMO.

Everything leading up to the physical act is much, much more important.

To make an analogy of it, sex is similar to how Alfred Hitchcock advised on writing a good thriller movie.

If there's a bomb under the table that's about to kill someone, it's much more interesting if the audience knows that it is there ticking away while your characters don't. Because a scene where there is an explosion, turns into a scene where there might be an explosion or there might not and it will linger in the mind.

Therefore, sex is much more intense if it lingers on both yours and hers mind, but there is a BIG possibility that it might not happen, even though she suspects it will. Dangle the carrot in front of her and I guarantee you will enjoy it too.

When I go out with a girl I honestly don't know whether I am going to **** her or not...not every "date" with a woman should end with you banging her. Even if things are boring, I will deliberately do something to provoke her to give the date an "edge". Most guys want to build rapport with a woman, they want to find commonalities and talk with her like a friend...this leads to boredom. As far as I'm concerned there needs to be chemistry and tension...the sex is ALWAYS better when there is.