Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you guys think its wrong to only care about sex and not relationships

Bilogomja

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because thats all I seriously care about. Some may find it ignorant, immature, etc. but I dont. I don't know, I've never been in a meaningful relationship so maybe this may change, but for the moment all I care about is sweeping the girl off her feet, f***ing her, and dropping her like a rag. Whats yalls take on this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ERIC

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Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with that, if you're enjoying the single life and just want a good time with some girl then do it. Just remember, if you're doing this with a number of girls who live relatively close to each other, word might start to get around that you're just out to bag a chick and scram. Then the women might be a little more hesitant to get involved with you in the first place. Be careful, and as long as you do that, keep on keepin' on. Just my 2 cents.
 

biker_gixxer

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Originally posted by Bilogomja
because thats all I seriously care about. Some may find it ignorant, immature, etc. but I dont. I don't know, I've never been in a meaningful relationship so maybe this may change, but for the moment all I care about is sweeping the girl off her feet, f***ing her, and dropping her like a rag. Whats yalls take on this?
I see nothing wrong with it bro, just make sure you 'wrap up' before you go swimming, lol.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Uh oh, another morality question... :eek: Y'know, every man should be able to live his own life. If that's what you want and your personal morality is comfortable with it, knock yourself out.

The only caveat I would add from my experience is that it's cool as long as it is mutual. I wouldn't lead a woman on about having an exclusive relationship just to get some nookie. That may cut down on the action, but at least you will never feel guilty.
 
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