"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you guys think I'm too picky?

bigdave17

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I've talked about wanting a female equivalent of myself - somebody extremely strong in all major areas but also genuinely a great person- but I also don't really like white women. White people I feel like age horribly. My mom at 56 has less wrinkles than white women do at 40. I want somebody ethnic (Italian Greek Spanish Puerto Rican, middle eastern but only Christian, etc...)

Is it really that hard to find somebody that qualifies all that who will have realistic standards?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've talked about wanting a female equivalent of myself - somebody extremely strong in all major areas but also genuinely a great person- but I also don't really like white women. White people I feel like age horribly. My mom at 56 has less wrinkles than white women do at 40. I want somebody ethnic (Italian Greek Spanish Puerto Rican, middle eastern but only Christian, etc...)

Is it really that hard to find somebody that qualifies all that who will have realistic standards?
A woman you personally match with on values and strengths is always the best thing. You are severly limiting your options on the nationality/race and religion issue though.
 

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A woman you personally match with on values and strengths is always the best thing. You are severly limiting your options on the nationality/race and religion issue though.
ethnic people tend to have similar values to me though
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ethnic people tend to have similar values to me though
That’s fine, just understand that finding a woman with your stated specifications will be more time consuming and difficult.
 

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That’s fine, just understand that finding a woman with your stated specifications will be more time consuming and difficult.
Spanish people especially have great family values that I like

but it's hard finding an educated polished Latina with no kids
 

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OP , i dont know what your situation is i dont know whether your an alter ego of richardthefrog,

But ffs just go out .......and chat to women All women, make them feel good, but not for long, leave them wanting more,

Who is this guy?
Hes Mysterious?
Sounds Fun?
Confident?

your obsessed with money

YOU DONT WINE AND DINE ...YOU EXCITE
 

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I've talked about wanting a female equivalent of myself - somebody extremely strong in all major areas but also genuinely a great person- but I also don't really like white women. White people I feel like age horribly.
I don't know bro, Sharon Stone looked smoking in her 40s. Still looks decent at 59.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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