Maximus Optimus
Banned
- Joined
- Feb 16, 2021
- Messages
- 130
- Reaction score
- 77
- Age
- 45
I'll be done with my associates degree at a technical college here in Dallas in about 2 years from now.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No, you're not too old. I'm 39 and I'll be finishing my IT Degree in Dec. I already got an entry level IT job that I started last Sept.I'll be done with my associates degree at a technical college here in Dallas in about 2 years from now.
No.Do you guys think 42 is too old to start a new career?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Absolutely not. It's never too late to go after your dreams and reach new goals. Keep working hard, make plans and stick to it. With time and patience, all the hard work will pay off.I'll be done with my associates degree at a technical college here in Dallas in about 2 years from now.
No not all, its all about the value you can prove and bring to a company. If you can get your foot in the door and impress from the start, you'll be fine.I'll be done with my associates degree at a technical college here in Dallas in about 2 years from now.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most corporate burnout cases involve people doing a job they don’t like for too long.I chose the degree strictly based on money. Its not a passion of mine at all
Is this a good strategy?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
There's an old saying: "A bad day of vacation beats a good day of work". That said, a man should work in a field that at least has some underlying "reason for work" that he can do and have professional integrity to do the job well.Most corporate burnout cases involve people doing a job they don’t like for too long.
An employee doesn’t need to be overly passionate about his job, but he should at least ‘like’ doing it…
I am 45. I am the same age as my folks when I was a kid if I took a time machine and went back to the 8os.I'll be done with my associates degree at a technical college here in Dallas in about 2 years from now.