"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you guys spend time getting them to do things with you?

thatfeel

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Like okay, online dating is a good example of this no matter how abhorrent the actual premise of online dating is. Fvck, if you want we can just say it's some random chick you saw at the gym or whatever.

Let's say you have decent enough game, that you can get them interested and you have their number and you're texting them. But you've never ever done anything without aside from get their # at whatever location it was you got their # at.. But all you want to do is fvck them. Is it absolutely necessary that you preface a visit to her house or yours with some annoying date or something you do together like go to the zoo or hit up the park or go out for a drink or whatever? To be honest whenever I have to do that sh!t I'm just never that interested in whatever it is we happen to be doing when all I'd rather do is fvck them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To be honest if I'm not interested in hanging out with them then I wouldn't want to fvck them. The only time I'd want to just bang and leave is at a party or bar.

But I mean if your game is good enough you can accomplish it.
 

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Get MONOPOLY DEAL, CLUEDO and UNO or go buy a board game every time you go on a date... That other sh1t like goto the zoo... fvck that noise, do you something YOU actually want to do. Card games are fun, cost effective and you can use them over and over, especially if you are out at a restaurant or waiting for a plane or something.

You've got to have something in common AFTER you fvk or its just awkward. I've always had UNO on hand and played it with almost every girlfriend I've had. The current one plays Monopoly Deal with a vengance... LOL, Once I angrily fvcked a girlfriend after she narrowly won a game of memory (the one where you flip over matching cards), she loved it, also go fish... Everyone likes playing card games.
 
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