Do you guys sometimes wish to be able to love like you used to?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I mean, after you get hurt so many times you become practically numb to emotions. I know that after a while of all of this red pill stuff, you start to see life as super bleak and dull. And it gets almost sad/depressing. But at the same time it can't because you are numb to getting sad/depressed too, which only leaves a more empty sensation inside. Sometimes I wish that I could feel again like how I was when I was 5 or 6. But then when I start to feel even slightly emotional I try and strengthen myself and put the walls back up.

Ugh, I guess ignorance truly is bliss.

Do you guys ever feel the same way sometimes?

 

[nismo-4]

I don't believe in love. I would love to love a woman outside of my family, but it's very difficult for me to do so. I don't trust women, and they play these little ho games.

 

[Rave18]

I mean, after you get hurt so many times you become practically numb to emotions. I know that after a while of all of this red pill stuff, you start to see life as super bleak and dull. And it gets almost sad/depressing. But at the same time it can't because you are numb to getting sad/depressed too, which only leaves a more empty sensation inside. Sometimes I wish that I could feel again like how I was when I was 5 or 6. But then when I start to feel even slightly emotional I try and strengthen myself and put the walls back up.

Ugh, I guess ignorance truly is bliss.

Do you guys ever feel the same way sometimes?

Of course, which is why people turn towards spirituality http://www.gocomics.com/pearlsbeforeswine/2013/01/17

 

[MOTU]

I am trying not to become jaded. While the red pill taught us the nature and phsycology of the modern woman, it doesn't necessarily devalue them. It's just like learning there is no santa took some of the mystery out of Christmas, it is still my favorite holiday.

I am striving to use my red pill knowledge to have more realistic expectations of women and manage my relationships with them better, because I do enjoy their companionship, energy and other feminine charms, beyond just the pvssy.

While it is disappointing that I can't just find my soulmate and live forever after in bliss, I am willing to make the effort. My yard takes a lot of work too, but I have learned to enjoy it and take pride in the outcome.

Grain of salt: I haven't made any of this actually work yet. I do have a gf at the moment and what I have learned about self improvement, creating a positive life for myself without her and allowing her to participate in it, maintaining attraction and frame seems to be helping, but there is not a lot of water under that bridge yet!

 

[sylvester the cat]

What you took for love was probably neediness.

Love is a whole different ball game.

 

[skinnyguy]

Fake alphas will say love doesn't exist and women are sex toys

 

[bcollarmechanic]

love is hard, but i do believe two people can love each other though love is rare these days

i do not under and circumstances believe in "the one" though

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Out of curiosity, is it me or do you guys find that pretty much anyone you ask to define "love" always seems to box it in within some seriously co-dependent parameters (ex. love is when you find that special someone you simply can't live without)