"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you guys shave your pubes?

Pdizzzzzzle

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I was recently at a party with a lot of drunk,slvtty girls. My friends and I were throwing the party and in all honesty totally pumped to hook up multiple times throughout the night. But right before the party started a few of the guys remarked about how they shaved their pubes, and were ready to get blown. I've never shaved there before, and no girl has ever told me to but these guys were saying that girls definitely like it better. Anyway, what do you think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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Captain said:
No, if women wanted a guy without pubes they'd fvck a 12 year old. Leave it be, or even better, trim a bit. Women don't like getting a mouth full of hair. I doubt those guys you talk about have ever actually been blown.
nah they have been. and i was thinking along the same lines of you, but wanted to make sure I wasn't the only one
 

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Trim.

Almost every girl I've encountered likes hair. It makes you more "manly".
 

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I shave the base of my shaft. It makes my **** appear a little bit bigger. I also shave my balls. It's itchy the first time you do it. It grows back pretty slow though. When I shave my balls they stay hairless for a week.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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A trim at the most. Shaving all the way is gross. You're not a porn star. Also the fact that if you shave all everything, it will most likely get really sweaty and sticky down there. Your hair acts as a heat sink to help dissipate heat, so it will make things swampy down there.
 

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I shave it down to a 1 or 2, shaving it to a zero looks weird and I tried it one time and a girl joked around how I looked like I didn't hit puberty yet.
 

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I've tried shaving and while it's a nice and clean cut after its done, if you don't keep it up you get the dreaded 3 day itch. For me it's just trimming with an electric trimmer, keeps it nice and even.
 

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I use a body groomer thing. I trim my pubes, stomach and legs. No need to look like a beast.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I shave my pubes once a week and I have yet to have a complaint in six years.

Its all in how you present yourself.

You could have the biggest c0ck in the room but if you don't have any confidence some of those four and five inch c0cks would still outdo you. Confidence is everything.

Besides by the time a girl sees that certain part of the anatomy, she ain't going to care about shaved or not (I have yet to hear a story to the contrary).

- comic_relief
 

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I recently shaved mine and a day or two later I realized why I never shave but trim it. The irritation is so uncomfortable. Any suggestions on what I can use to deal with this? Are there any razorless shaving powders or what not that you guys use in shaving and where can I purchase one?
 

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jafyk said:
I recently shaved mine and a day or two later I realized why I never shave but trim it. The irritation is so uncomfortable. Any suggestions on what I can use to deal with this? Are there any razorless shaving powders or what not that you guys use in shaving and where can I purchase one?
Unfortunately man you just gotta wait it out. Try putting some lotion down there if its really bad. Trust me, it sucks, but you either shave it again or stick with it for a couple of days.
 

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jafyk said:
I recently shaved mine and a day or two later I realized why I never shave but trim it. The irritation is so uncomfortable. Any suggestions on what I can use to deal with this? Are there any razorless shaving powders or what not that you guys use in shaving and where can I purchase one?
Try some hydrocortisone and/or Tend Skin.
 
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