Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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do you guys see women as equal?

Tiguere

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or are they sub-men. i mean there is a reason muslims keep their women in check and deprive them from lots of rights. and if you go back in history the whole world basically kept women down under.

there was a reason for that. i dont think men woke up one day and just said "HEY LETS MAKE LIFE MISERABLE FOR WOMEN FROM NOW ON"


according to some people womens lib of the 20`s was greatly fueled by the rockefellers so they can tax the other half of the population( since women werent allowed to work hence cant be taxed)

and as soon they liberated themselves they started to challenge the social status quo specially in the 60`s(feminism).

still to this day women have shown that they would rather share a successful man than to have a loser to themselves( charlie sheen living with 2 girls)

are women equal to us? do you view them as an equal?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tiguere said:
or are they sub-men. i mean there is a reason muslims keep their women in check and deprive them from lots of rights. and if you go back in history the whole world basically kept women down under.

there was a reason for that. i dont think men woke up one day and just said "HEY LETS MAKE LIFE MISERABLE FOR WOMEN FROM NOW ON"
Muslims "keep their women in check" in impoverished areas. There are plenty of educated professional women in muslim countries. I'm not muslim, nor am I sticking up for muslim countries...but your argument is flawed.

Actually that tends to be the trend. The crappier the area, the more repressed women are. Of course the Taliban is gonna repress women. They're poor, uneducated, and they live in sh*t. Is that an example you want our country to follow?

As as far as the history of the world... I'm no history expert, but I'd say that since most of the work in the past was comprised of physical work being done by poor people, that probably would result in a woman's role being better served inside a house, raising children. She isn't hunting, fighting, or carrying logs...


still to this day women have shown that they would rather share a successful man than to have a loser to themselves( charlie sheen living with 2 girls)
Sheen's chicks? They're porn star drug addicts. I mean good for him...but that's not an example of anything.

are women equal to us? do you view them as an equal?
They're different. But yeah, I'm not going to say that I'm superior to an entire group of people.
 

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All I know is that I would never take any order from a woman and not because this site say so but because it piss the hell out of me,I trust my instinct more than some rubbish heard on tv.

It's not that they are bad or stupid it's just that everybody has a position in this world,and women are good in taking care of people or dealing with kids not to command,chose how to organize society or decide whos' worth and who's not.

If the women were not allowed to vote I bet my ass drug addicts and unemployed people would not be considered as much as now.
If you look at most of the problems of our society they all have roots in women taking decisions on emotions instead of logic.
Who else would vote some incompetant politician just because he's good looking and sociable?

Those who dont understand the value of hard work and pain cause they've been treated with gloves since their birth are not supposed to rule those who knows.
When a guy piss someone off and get beaten, he understand something that cannot be taught in school and it's more useful than some crappy degree in psycology or fashion.
I don't know if its a gender thing or the differences are due to double standards in education but the fact remains.

It's generalization of course,before some white knight comes...
 

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I view them as complete equals. I really wish Strelok was kidding.
 

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I feel as if they're not equal to men, in many ways. Not just physically or emotionally, but also intellectually.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I believe in equality. My girls pay for half the food on dates :yes:

- comic_relief
 

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Danger said:
In my opinion women are separate but equal.

They have their own strengths and weaknesses, just like men.

Do not fall for the PC scared BS rhetoric that every talent between the sexes is equal.
^ ^ This.

Men and women obviously have, on the whole, better talents in different areas.
 
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