"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

do you guys lift every day?

tarotale

Banned
Joined
Apr 27, 2009
Messages
52
Reaction score
0
i hear opinions from 2 types.

1st type says a person needs to lift only 3 times a week, and more than that
is almost waste of time and less effective.

2nd type says a person needs to lift monday through saturday and usually
do cardio or rest on sunday.

i always get this differing questions. i am 145lb, 5 ft 6inches.

i want to get big, as in muscles. i been working out for quite a while, so
give me some good advice if you know well about lifting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

bud_2005

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2002
Messages
907
Reaction score
2
I lift 3 days a week. I would get burnt out if I did anymore than that.
 

search1ng

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
546
Reaction score
8
i work-out 2 days on 1 day off (shoulders, back, rest, legs, chest), cardio roughly 4-5 times a week when i have the time, be it a basketball game, just shooting hoops, swimming, sprints or jump rope.
 

Quiksilver

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2006
Messages
2,813
Reaction score
55
A schedule that's worked pretty well for me as far as size and leanness go is:

Monday - Legs, light cardio
Tuesday - Abs heavy, intense cardio
Wednesday - Chest/shoulders/tris, light cardio
Thursday - Abs light, intense cardio
Friday - Back/bi's, light cardio
Saturday - Stretching/light sports
Sunday - Rest + eat heaps
 

She_feelin_Me

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 23, 2009
Messages
64
Reaction score
0
Location
VA
You should lift weights every OTHER day...When you lift weights you are strecthing and tearing the muscle apart. You give yourself a day for a break so your muscles can repare itself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Colossus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2005
Messages
3,494
Reaction score
543
Depends on your experience and how fast you recover.

If you're new to lifting, lift 3 days per week. Once you get more advanced you can go 4 or 5 days. Always have at least 1 day of complete rest, and 1-2 days of 'active' rest---some walking, swimming, or light sports.
 

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,223
Location
The Dirty South
I always got the best results from 3 square days a week. I'd do the most important (to me) parts first then on down. Usually was like this:

Day 1 - Chest and Thighs, with chest movements starting at presses then maybe flies or some other isolation exercise. For thighs, basically squats or leg presses followed by either lunges or extensions + leg curls.

Day 2 - Back, Shoulders and Abs with back movements starting with deadlifts or the Clean and Jerk. Typically I'd do either Deadlifts + Military Press for 3 sets each or just the Clean and Jerk for 5 sets. Then either rows/pullups and some shoulder isolation exercises, then a circuit of abs.

Day 3 - Bis, Tris and Calves. Do what you will. I'd usually do some sort of cardio on this day as well. I would do a good amount of cardio in my free time anyway.

All of those workouts took me about an hour. Make sure to stretch well, that was my undoing.

Also of good note, and it's just my experience, the BEST I ever achieved was doing a football workout I had for one exercies per each major bodypart. Overloaded everything it seemed like.

Good luck.
 

blinkwatt101

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
268
Reaction score
2
I go to the gym 6 days a week sometimes 7,but the 7th day would be cardio only.

Lifting more then 3 is not overkill. Whoever told you that is lazy,end of story.
 
Top