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Do you guys go for the number on every approach or what

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When you approach and have a good conversation do you only ask for the number if there are obvious signs of flattery and interest (alot of giggling, her doing her best to keep the conversation going, her giving up alot of personal info, etc) or do you go for it every time except when they give off bad signs?
 

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Originally posted by Pettycoat Junction
When you approach and have a good conversation do you only ask for the number if there are obvious signs of flattery and interest (alot of giggling, her doing her best to keep the conversation going, her giving up alot of personal info, etc) or do you go for it every time except when they give off bad signs?

I always ask for the digits....cuz you'll never have the chance to again in some cases. A bad sign could be PMS for all we know.
 

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Re: Re: Do you guys go for the number on every approach or what

Originally posted by Immaculate
I always ask for the digits....cuz you'll never have the chance to again in some cases. A bad sign could be PMS for all we know.
What about if you're in class where you see them almost everyday?
 

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Who gives a crap?

You will never be ridiculed by a male for not getting a chicks number.

I've taken **** from ugly fat b1tches because some chick didn't give me her number. Big deal.
If you don't ask, you don't get.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Do you guys go for the number on every approach or what

Originally posted by Vanilla
What about if you're in class where you see them almost everyday?

If you see her every day, next time you see her start a conversation, and then say how about I call you sometime?\


Damn I'm good


:D
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you guys go for the number on every approach or what

Originally posted by Immaculate
If you see her every day, next time you see her start a conversation, and then say how about I call you sometime?\


Damn I'm good


:D
That makes two of us :eek: Though I made up some BS about calling them if I missed a class. Another bad habit I'm trying to correct.
 
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