"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you guys ever have a weird feeling when your seeing a girl that's really into you?

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I'm seeing this new girl and her interest level is pretty high. Like I don't have to even try with her (I'm just myself) and she's very interested. I don't even need to game her, I just have fun and joke around with her. But I keep having a weird feeling because it's so effortless, in the past I always had to watch my actions, like a lot of guys here. Have any of you ever felt this way?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It may seem effortless but you cannot get careless. It's very easy to screw up and all the interest she has in you can go away. It can be gradual or a very sudden occurrence.
 
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If you haven't dealt with a girl who's really into you before then it's normal to have that "weird feeling". It's coz you're not used to it, duh!

A girl with high IL will make it easy for you. All you have to do is to play it cool and not fvck it up.
 
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Jitterbug said:
If you haven't dealt with a girl who's really into you before then it's normal to have that "weird feeling". It's coz you're not used to it, duh!

A girl with high IL will make it easy for you. All you have to do is to play it cool and not fvck it up.
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lol, yeah that's probably the reason. I'm not complaining mind you, I like the feeling.
 
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A high interest woman makes it easy.BUT not trying is what is actually attracting her,she can tell you are real,not the pretend guy you were with the other women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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