"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do you guys ever get called conceited?

garruk

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ive been called conceited a number of times by different girls whenever i use c/f.

it doesnt bother me and it doesnt seem to affect attraction (ive had a girl call me conceited right before we fcked) btu im just wondering if you guys are having similar experiences.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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909pua

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well i wasn't called conceited but some chick complained to me "why do you always have to be center of attention?" haha, this girl AFC'd in front of a bunch of people. I told her "man, stop hatin, sit your a$$ down, and shut your mouth"
 

Desert Fox

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i get called arrogant in a non-joking way quite a bit. i dont deserve this abuse so i just tell them they seem to like it since they are talking to me all the time. they say they dont like it. i say then you should go **** off. problem solved.

of course i am burning bridges this way but i really have low tolerance to people critical of me when i am better than them in every way so who the **** are they to tell me what to do? laugh out loud.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Uberguy

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Sorry, what's that? I was too busy thinking about how handsome I am to hear your question.
 

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"Sorry, I can't hear you over the sound of how awesome I am"

Stolen from the James T. Kirk motivational poster I saw on another site.
 

909pua

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Desert Fox said:
of course i am burning bridges this way but i really have low tolerance to people critical of me when i am better than them in every way so who the **** are they to tell me what to do? laugh out loud.

AMEN TO THAT!
 

Warrior74

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Yup. All the time. I quote one of my favorite ryhmes, Arrogance is the feature that we added for floss.
 

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I've been called a d!ck a few times. It's usually responded to with a 'you know you love it.' And then moving on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asasione

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I've heard this from numerous girls who all were attracted to me. It seems like a test in hindsight and a reply like


Crow said:
'you know you love it.'.
is similar to what I usually would say. Can never remember what I say to girls. Agreeing and amplifying seems like the natural thing to do after all I'm awesome
:D
 
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