"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you guys also find that women often project an ego onto the guys?

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I mean I got a girlfriend who's hitting the wall at 80 mph as we speak.

She keeps telling me my ego is huge while in reality my ego is pretty small. I really don't measure myself much towards other people except myself.

She is a whack job. Also she keeps telling me how pride is ego, and ego is bad, and all that other stuff. Every morning this chick will get her daily tarot reading which gives her a false sense of purpose, lol. I can tell she thinks she's getting enlightened, while the tarot reading itself is just inflating her ego.

So she one day woke up was all like: "you're not even motivated in life. What do you even have to offer?"

I basically got up, told her: "you're supposed to know that by now. Anyway, here's the keys. I'm leaving. See you in a few days". (basically to avoid the ****storm or the tear fest).

So I meet up with my narcissist friend who helps me out. I gave him the phone, and he texted the girl this: "I am the owner of several estates. I'm working on becoming an engineer. I have celebrities in my social circle. Who are you?".

Now she's like a girl on a temper tantrum. Still pretty scornful but she is afraid to criticize me any further. Thanks to my friend I have the power back in the relationship.

I myself wouldn't have the balls to text that to the girl, but really I felt AWESOME after the messages were sent. It was the best feeling ever after all the **** she put me through.

I really learned a lot from my friend. He is homeless and he's banging like 3 bitches. I ask him how he does it, and he says they dig his Narc (=narcissist) game.

If you see Mystery in field, you can see he's also got great narcissit game. Like how he was telling a girl he had felt like he was in a 'pleasure bubble'.

Anyways tell me what you guys think.


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Its like those girls expect anybody that gets pvssy to have a massive ego, and if he doesn't have a massive ego they try to walk all over you. So then you have to actually act like you have a massive ego in order to get them to respect you.

What is up with that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I mean I got a girlfriend who's hitting the wall at 80 mph as we speak.

She keeps telling me my ego is huge while in reality my ego is pretty small. I really don't measure myself much towards other people except myself.

She is a whack job. Also she keeps telling me how pride is ego, and ego is bad, and all that other stuff. Every morning this chick will get her daily tarot reading which gives her a false sense of purpose, lol. I can tell she thinks she's getting enlightened, while the tarot reading itself is just inflating her ego.

So she one day woke up was all like: "you're not even motivated in life. What do you even have to offer?"

I basically got up, told her: "you're supposed to know that by now. Anyway, here's the keys. I'm leaving. See you in a few days". (basically to avoid the ****storm or the tear fest).

So I meet up with my narcissist friend who helps me out. I gave him the phone, and he texted the girl this: "I am the owner of several estates. I'm working on becoming an engineer. I have celebrities in my social circle. Who are you?".

Now she's like a girl on a temper tantrum. Still pretty scornful but she is afraid to criticize me any further. Thanks to my friend I have the power back in the relationship.

I myself wouldn't have the balls to text that to the girl, but really I felt AWESOME after the messages were sent. It was the best feeling ever after all the **** she put me through.

I really learned a lot from my friend. He is homeless and he's banging like 3 bitches. I ask him how he does it, and he says they dig his Narc (=narcissist) game.

If you see Mystery in field, you can see he's also got great narcissit game. Like how he was telling a girl he had felt like he was in a 'pleasure bubble'.

Anyways tell me what you guys think.


TLDR:
Its like those girls expect anybody that gets pvssy to have a massive ego, and if he doesn't have a massive ego they try to walk all over you. So then you have to actually act like you have a massive ego in order to get them to respect you.

What is up with that?
Problem areas in bold.

You are looking up to homeless people and you wonder why your girl is having issues with your drive in life?

Here is what she is saying: "You are 26, you have no job and yet you think you are hot stuff. Get a job, you bum. Otherwise I will never have your children because they would starve to death."

Guys, women are supposed to motivate us to work harder.
 

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When I came to the part about the tarot cards I immediately thought "I don't need to read further, she's batsh!t crazy".

Why is this obnoxious b!tch your girlfriend?

Anyways, you don't really want a massive ego. That will come back one day to completely fvck you up, a huge ego might lead you to become like your obnoxious girlfriend. She has a massive ego, she tries hiding it by talking about how small it is and shaming everyone else for having a huge one. You shouldn't tolerate sh!t either which doesn't have anything to do with ego btw.

She's full of BS and now you're about to get sucked into the ego trap. As if an ego actually exist. It does not, an ego is an entirely fictional and imaginary concept. There is no such thing in reality. It seems like particularly clever and successful people have a small ego, but in fact they have none. They realize ego in fact does not really exist or doesn't even think about it or care at all.

Basically anyone who acknowledge the existence of an ego are delusional as far as I'm concerned.
 

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Problem areas in bold.

You are looking up to homeless people and you wonder why your girl is having issues with your drive in life?

Here is what she is saying: "You are 26, you have no job and yet you think you are hot stuff. Get a job, you bum. Otherwise I will never have your children because they would starve to death."

Guys, women are supposed to motivate us to work harder.
Well, I have to admit, I am amazed that he is homeless and fvcking chicks left and right. He is the most manipulative sociopath that I know, but that's why there's so much to learn from him.

You make some valid points. But the way I see it: as long as I'm going to school the job isn't so necessary. I'm a late bloomer when it comes to University, yes, but I have my eyes set on a MA in Architecture as it is now, and I've almost got the Bachelors.

Either way. No way in hell will I let that ***** have a child of mine. If I ever fvck her again it'll be in the Ane.
 
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