"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you go after girls that you arent interested in, but make themselves available?

solo1

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What they say is true, its easier for an older guy to get a younger girl...

Yesterday I was at the poolhall with some friends. Outside were these 2 girls that walked pass, they were average looking and probably 16-17. Yea I was checking them out or at least seeing if they were hot or not. They noticed I was looking and I guess they just so happened decided to come in and open a table right next to ours. One of them glanced over a few times and shot a little the other one was calling up people. What I can tell they were definitely not interested in playing pool. they stayed almost 10 mins probably and left.

Today at McDonalds, probably a 16 year old girl was on line to order, I was in another line. She looked over so I looked back. I have no clue what happened or what she said to the cashier when it was her turn. I saw she left. Im still on the other line, and I notice its her behind me with the white shirt..Im like "huh?" And then she jumps over to the line on my right, so she's standing right next to me. Several times she stood closer to me and even faced my direction.

Experience has always taught me if a girl goes out of her way to be near a guy, then its a no brainer. I know there will always be future opportunities...but I feel regretful for these missed opportunities at the same time. Not to say that I was attracted to these girls, but I think it was dumb of me not to take advantage of girls making themselves available..plus it could help practice my game and maybe get laid...I hate myself.

But lets be honest who here on this board goes after girls they arent interested in?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheManFromR'lyeh

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By all means get all the practice you can, but don juanism is about getting exactly what you want out of life. So it would behove you to spend some time in serious self examination, than proceed toward your stated objectives at full tilt.
 

Tha Realnezz

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Sometimes just for sex.


I mean not going after girls i don't think are attractive just girls i lost interest in or don't personally like for whatever reason..
 
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