"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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do you get jealous

lurker

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when you see a girl looking at a good looking guy instead of you?. you feel youaint attractive because the girl isnt looking at you. dont you hate it when girls just die for an attractive boy right in your presence sweeping you away like the wind while you just stand there knowing that they arnt interested in you. dont you just hate it. dont you hate the girls for that and want some kinda revenge.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ye yeah

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pretty much lol,jealously is a curse,like right now for example,the girl i like didnt invite me out tonight for the 1st night in the last 4 or 5,and i get jealous thinking she could be with other guys,and that she has no attraction for me and i mean nothing to her,its funny all this wondering and **** making myself jealous,when she is prolly bored with just girls wherever she went out :S
 

ye yeah

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just as i wrote that reply,i txted a friend of the girl i like (its her bday to ask what she is up to *find out what the girl i like is doing*) and they are watchin a dvd the 3 girls together, jealously eats away at you PERFECT example,but it does get to me when girls look at other guys over me,****s me really bad i feel pathetic lol
 

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haha i always find you funny lurker. yes it eats to the core of my soul. when im dressed nice and i think im looking nice. i walkout on the streets and i dont even get a look from women, while when i dont even care about what im wearing i get unbeleivable stares when i look like im tired and wouldnt give a damn its not something you can pull of on your own will its comes and goes. it used to eat me up. like i wanted to walk to them and say look at me *****. you know what's painfull.. is when a girl is looking at you she like's you then a better looking guy comes along then she stops staring at you and eyes the other man. lol. jealousy is a bad thing. this is something im trying to get past. in situationa like this thing of a guy you admire. i just think clint eastwood and walk away(thats funny but its helps my weak unbalanced ego im sure when im older i'll get over this nonsense) i though i was the only one. on time a girl stopped me on the street blabbing bout some nonsense yes she wanted to chat me up. some group of guys saw her stopp me these guys were goodlooking by the way. they just kept staring from afar the whole time (im sure they were thinking why didnt this girl stopp them instead). jealousy is bad.
 

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I know exactly what u mean. It's like why them? Why were they blessed with the looks to get noticed like that and not me. But the best advice i ever heard, was that the world owes u nothing. It is wat it is. Yea it sux, but how bout the guy who was born with no legs or a deformed face, he has it even worse than our jealous ass*s. The world owes him nothin either. He is just unlucky. The no legged man will prob never have a gf, never know wat its like to sleep with a woman, it sux, but it is wat it is. he has to find other stuff to make him happy. But damm im jealous as hell too. lol I see these idiots with hot gf's and i get passed over, it blows.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think everybody gets jealous, except maybe good ol' brad pitt. :crackup: I just think you have to hide it at all costs.
 

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I'm checking out the women not the men. Could care less.
 

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yes i know most guys would feel jealous. dont get it twisted guys. some pretty poys are the worst when it comes to jealousy. lets say you are walking witha hb8.7. the pretty boy stares. thinking he deserves the girl more than you. im a 7. i think hehe. but there's always someone better looking im not all that but im alrite looking i work out and im good and happy but every once in a while i get jealous of better looking guys. looks fade away so im not stuck on my looks like how i used too. imagine being 50. and still not have the personality to woo a woman. or your wife what would we all rely on plastci surgery then. im working on my personality more now. i still cant help but still get jealous of some other guys though. whats worse is when some guy tries to kiss his girlfriend while looking at me, its like some people bring jealousy upon themselves.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think when you all stop using numbers to classify yourselves and girls you'll find this stuff a whole lot easier.. lol.

Beauty is subjective. An 11 guy to one girl could be a 2 in the eyes of another. So a pretty girl looks at some guy who that girl obviously thinks is an 11, yet another girl could not give him a second glance.. are you gonna get worked up over that?

Chill out, pull some deads.
 
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