"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you ever wish you were less appealing

051AV

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I was going to say attractive I'm not that vain or full of myself.

I've always had women nervous around me its been something I've been dealing with for years. I was involved with a BPD woman its killed my interest in women, now that my bull**** meter is cranked on high. Most available women either are too young I'm 40 I'm not going after 20 somethings, or the woman that are a little older have issues.

I attract the attention of unavailable women as well I get tired of it, ya these married women are attractive.

What made me start this I had a woman that bats for the other team nervous I sort of know her she gets so nervous around me she stutters when she talks. It does make me laugh a little that I can make a gay woman nervous.

I'm very much an introvert, lone wolf, there are days I wish I wouldn't attract the attention of women. I look younger than my true age, I'm not ripped but I'm not fat either, being a broad shouldered guy and far from being a metrosexual I guess you could say I'm a manly man.

Todays women that have so much baggage and issues I've just lost total interest in women. Do you guys ever wish you never attracted the attention of women?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Infern0

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Just act like you are broke.

Money is all that matters.
 

bigneil

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Exactly! I often think: "If I wasn't so goddamn good looking..."


All joking aside, if we were the hottest guy in high school, we'd have been married off to the prom queen who would be fat by now. I was just good looking enough to keep hot girls interested, but not so good looking that I got tied down. God knows there were women who could have enslaved me back in my 20's.
 

AlphaNate

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No. This is dumb.

If you don't like something about your life, change it.

"I'm too attractive!" You guys will make anything a ****ing complex.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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homie

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All the time!
I'm getting really tired of women throwing themselves at me. You ugly guys would not understand...
:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
 
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