Do you ever tell the other guy...?

[Jediknight888]

Bros BF hoes right? I've had a lot of people on this set say to me.... "think about the guy she is with, you could be in his shoes and have this girl that's f'ing around on you all the time and not even know it". And they're right.... but at want point do you tell the sorry sucker?

I can't help but feel that if I was that guy I'd want to know if my girl was f'ing other guys. Wouldn't you? So do you ever tell the other guy? Or is this something that is always avoided? Maybe it would create too much drama and should be avoided for that reason? Maybe people are nuts and would come after me? Thoughts?

 

[Alvafe]

that is the thing, you would like I would like, but we have 3 problems, people can lie, the dude you tell about will be angry with you and not her, you will get in a crossfire you should be on.

so what you can really do is, if you find out then she have a BF, ghost her, the very least she is trying to branch swing, but you as a guy of valor you know a girl like this don't deserve your time, so you stop wasting time with her and she already show you she can't be trusted. if the is your friend then you tell him(with pics if possible) and be ready to lose him as friend, because he couldl not belive on you, and his GF (hopefully ex) will hate your guts for that

 

[Who Dares Win]

20 yrs ago I would have tell him, he would have thanked me after few minutes of rage and thats all.

Nowadays I would have a raging guy mad at me cause I broke his illusion of fixing something hard in life (get a girl and steady sex) plus a raging wh0re mad at me cause I broke her system with the legal system in total support at her no matter what she does or say.

I pass personally altought I realize its wrong.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

It never pays to be Captain-Save-A-Beta.

 

[speed dawg]

It never pays to be Captain-Save-A-Beta.

Yep. Just like any lesson in life, most people won't learn until they experience pain.

 

[Jediknight888]

The details don't matter. She lied to me and said she was no longer with her BF. Either way though, telling him at this point doesn't do anything good for me. Thanks for your 2 cents.

 

[Champ Slice]

Something my mentor always tell me...

If my gf ever tries to bang you, "**** the **** out of her and tell me about it." His logic? He would rather somebody he knows bang his girl and tell him about it so he can dump her vs her sleeping around with some other guy behind his back and all the consequences that come with that.

OP if you don't know the guy? Oh well, move on.