Do you ever just get tired of it all?

[captain55]

Not to sound ****y but I feel like I've already reached the top of the mountain when it comes to women. I've banged women I could only dream about banging three years ago, IMO if your banging the women you want youve reached the top of the mountain. Whether that's 7's or supermodels...everyone has their standards.

At this point in my life I would really like a relationship with a nice woman who Im attracted to of course, but my heart is just not into it anymore. I found my dream girl fellas, I know she's the one....I've been with enough women to say so. Every 2-3 years we come across a chick that just makes you go damn.


You tell yourself to get back out there, youll find another one...because in the past you ALWAYS found another one.....but something tells you its different this time. That theres not gonna be another one....

And it's not oneitus, please dont confuse.... I know I can't have this woman Im fine with it and accepted it, .. the problem is my heart just isn't in it anymore. . Im tired of pretending I actually want to get to know these chicks.

Being a player/ don juan definitely takes its toll on you emotionally in the long run IMHO, you just get burned out.

 

[soulforge]

Yeh i,m very fuking tired of it... i have banged numerous chicks.. and feels so fukin pointless somtimes..


Met a girl just recently, that i actually felt different with... but that just fell apart..

Banged 2 chicks only last week, amazing bodies... again felt fukin empty

 

[Infern0]

Nothing wrong with taking a break Imo.

It's possible to have someone out there who you really wish things had turned out different.

If you are in the spot where you accept what happened and that it's gone, that's how you know yeah you actually did love them.

In my afc days I though I loved a few girls but these days I know better. There is one though.

There's a lot of mill fodder out there. It's possible to become banged out Imo.

Like I say maybe take a break and put full attention into something other than ***** for a while.

 

[Turuwal]

Yes.

 

[Infern0]

I am in bold .

I'm not that dumb my friend. I do appreciate the concern though.

No, she was a girl I was with for about 9 months several years ago, I blew it by hooking up with an emo girl at a party for no real reason other than I was being a jackass. Regretted it ever since

 

[PipeDope]

My thoughts in bold




I don't consider a player and a Don Juan to be the same. A player is someone who will lie, cheat, etc to have sex with as many women as possible, with no regard to their feelings. That has never sat well with me, which is why I don't act that way.

A Don Juan, on the other hand, is a man who develops himself to the best of his abilities - financially, emotionally, maturity -wise. He makes himself the best he can be, and knows his own value. He treats others with respect and DEMANDS the same. Despite this, he KNOWS the nature of women, he KNOWS the risks of marriage and therefore women come second in his life, behind securing a financial future and a career.


Too many guys here put too much emphasis on nailing chicks, racking up numbers. Not a healthy way to live.

Very well spoken!! Lots of members on here have such finesse and truth with their words. You are one of them. No more for me to add

 

[PeasantPlayer]

You can make meaningful connections with any living thing. Being burned out from meaningless sex is very possible (try telling that to a woman) Maybe you should step back and see what areas in yourself you can improve and work on. Possibly travel and gets a change of scenery or take up a new project or learn an instrument. Always challenge yourself

 

[Bingo-Player]

I know what you’re saying

Unfortunately ive learnt when it comes to women you can never truly “have your cake and eat it”

There is always a catch 22 whether that be kids, marriage or baggage

Women are deteriorating assets and depreciate quickly ( even quicker when you put a ring on its finger)

Ive banged my fair share of chicks , i was lucky to enjoy the peak of the one night stand period but lately I’ve lost my flare for it

Over the last 2 years women’s habits have changed dramatically the sale of bullsh1t must be at an all time high and I’m finding more and more women to be lacking strong personalities

These days i leave my “game” at home i find it far too time consuming to even play

i go out now and speak to women how i please some love it , some hate it

the difference is I don’t fvcking care i have no respect left for them or they’re vaginas

 

[skinnyguy]

Mauser's a wise guy.

The thought of putting more work in JUST to get some pvssy? It's not all that worth it.

tru tru