"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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do you ever feel that its to aggresive for a girl to smile at you

whosthat

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ive noticed sometimes some girls have looked my way and gave a little smile sometimes, of course these girls were not like seriouly hot, maybe like 7's and below, but i felt weird or caught off guard when they did and kept walking, if she was seriisly hot i dought i would keep walking but have any of yall ever felt that way, like girls shouldnt do that, like its too much in a way on there part
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joverby

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You should work on organizing your thoughts a little better, you seem like you might be drunk or something. Are you?

I don't think many people are going to feel that a girl smiling at them is aggressive. Since when has smiling been aggressive? Unless we're talking about the Joker, maybe.
 
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