Do you ever feel guilty ?

[Fitters]

Not from a white knight mentality but from the point of view of a MAN who will / might have future daughters , sisters or even mothers meet a man souvave as you ?

At this point I think it's all a big game. I had sex with a girl , told her I'm heading home only to go on a date with another girl. To have them invested in you so much but play it off ass a joke is something im really starting to struggle with lately. Comes as a surprise because I always make it clear I don't want anything long term. But as natural human instincts they want to have something they cannot have.

Is there a crucial step here that I missed or is this one of the consequences you have to deal with in this kind of lifestyle ?

 

[thatfeel]

The sosuave approach to women actually applies to all aspects of life. Your mom and your sister are no different of women that you game and fvck, only that you don't game and fvck them I hope. However you can game the family females in your life by not letting them exert control over you (if you're a grown adult) or by letting them sh!t all over you and by showing your masculinity and independence, etc. Mothers have insane amounts of respect and pride for their sons that are "true men" aka don juans. Its just how things work. Likewise you can run the DJ lifestyle in your job to make sure people don't walk all over you, to get the promotions and jobs and projects and salaries you deserve, etc. So no. Feeling guilty isn't part of the deal.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Once I was able to understand how dating works and configure the rules in a way where I'd feel comfortable, I had no problem with most of the stuff I did.

For example: you had sex with a girl, then went on a date. Should you feel bad? In my view of the rules, if neither of these women is my girlfriend yet and it's been made it clear to them that it's not a relationship, both I and her can do whatever the heck we want with other people. No commitment, no commitment behavior, and thus no guilt. Now, if I had a girlfriend and had sex with her and THEN went on a date with another girl? In my compass, I'd feel guilty - and yet, another guy may feel that until she's the wife, he can do whatever and whoever he wants.

Also - and I've said this on other posts - but this whole "I don't luv these h0es" mentality just needs to stop. Reality check: it's PERFECTLY OKAY to want something long-term at some point with the right girl. The key, though, is not to be so desperate for it that you make the wrong decisions about who you're dating and ending up with.

Lastly - the "lifestyle" you speak of will eventually lead you to a girl you want to spend a loooong time with. It just takes the pressure off of you to have to MAKE a relationship work with someone, and turning them into your one-i-tis. It's also designed so that the GIRL is the one showing more interest, thus allowing you to set the rules of how the relationship is run, which is not only a GREAT position, but it's also the one she wants you to be in.

 

[dustmuffin]

Women game men. You can learn game and enjoy the feast or get eaten. There is no guilt involved.

 

[Tictac]

Women game men. You can learn game and enjoy the feast or get eaten. There is no guilt involved.

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This ^^^^^

Do you think that women 'feel guilty' about the way they deal with men? Hell no!

 

[El Payaso]

You should stop giving a sh*t what your mothers or sisters or whatever female family members might think. That is a blue pill mentality.

The advice that women toss around between themselves, they don't stop to worry about how their sons or fathers might "feel" and whatnot.

Do YOU and be proud of it.

 

[dustmuffin]

You should stop giving a sh*t what your mothers or sisters or whatever female family members might think. That is a blue pill mentality.

The advice that women toss around between themselves, they don't stop to worry about how their sons or fathers might "feel" and whatnot.

Do YOU and be proud of it.

This is spot on. The masculine has to adapt to the femine id bs. Men's feelings are never taken into consideration.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Well call me a criminal but I can turn off my feeling of guilt like a switch. I could go out and kill random people and not lose the slightest bit of sleep over it if I so please to, but logically I know I SHOULD feel guilt because those are human people just like me with families of their own, so IF I ever did that, I would let myself feel guilty.
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I don't let anyone make me feel guilty for anything that I stand for. I only let myself feel guilty if I (for some reason) go against my own logical morals. Or if someone brings about a new moral to me that seems more logical than my others.
But other than that, be overt with your intentions and relentless and shameless in action, as guru would say.

 

[Serenity]

I would feel guilty as well taking them for granted for investing their time and energy in me knowing I won't return it. I would feel guilty because I know how bitter it is to waste my precious time on false hopes.

If you're going to play on their hopes you will have to continue dealing with the guilt of what you know you make them feel. Either that or find the kindness to give one of them a chance and at least consider the possibility it may develop into something more.

So it may be you feel guilt because you know they're in for more than you're in for. By continuing like that with them you are technically taking advantage of them, because they give you what you want but you don't give them what they want.

I would say that it's not that they want something they cannot have, they want something you can't or won't give them.