"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you even lift, sis?!

Yewki

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Cause I hope not. Bulky muscular chicks are gross. Don't get me wrong, being fit and toned is HOT, but when the muscles start bulging my c0ck is... not.

I'm sure a lot (not all, but a lot) of women who heavy lift think guys like seeing their big muscles. Now, you can find someone who likes something for just about anything out there... but generally speaking, they're not doing themselves a favor in the whole attracting the opposite sex department. A buldging muscular chick is still more attractive than a lazy whale, but girls... if you're doing it to raise your value with men, do yourself a favor and ease up... a lot. Trust me, looking like a man with a wig is not helping you. Cardio is your friend.

Similiar situation with women who think it's hot as hell to have big puffy lips. As in, they had plastic surgery and now they're in permanent duck face mode. How the hell did that even become a thing? GTFO of here with puffer face lips, they're f**cking creepy.

What things do you find unattractive or just flat out gross that some women inexplicable think is sexy? Bonus points if you dated or banged someone like that
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Arthy

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Most of those "muscluar" women, are not hitting the gym to attract men, they are doing it for themselves (body building competitions) since its a lot harder to gain muscle mass as a female and they have to work really hard to archive that bulky muscular look you're talking about.
 

Stort_Brød

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No girl does bodybuilding to attract a male, it is the lil cardio bunnies that do it for attention... lifting should not be done for anyone else but yourself... do I lift to get girls? fvck no I lift for me and me only getting girls becasue of a good body is just an excellent side effect of it haha.

Personally I don't mine me a chick with some muscle but I am not talking about full competition shape.
 

JohnChops

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no one bodybuilders to attract anyone, all the bodybuilders i know dont give any fvcks about what women think about them. they do it for themselves because they love the sport, maybe people should do the same instead of doing things in-spite of getting women. who gives a flying fvck.
 
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