"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you even feel yourself intolerant and hostile to society?

Who Dares Win

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Not sure if anyone can relate but there are moments in my life (more and more frequent and intense as time pass) where I feel like things are not what they should be, I feel that Im deprived from my freedom and dignity not only in the relationship field but also in the social/legal one.

I find myself more and more to question things that even few years earlier I would have believed and probably supported.

I no longer respect authorities, it seems to me its just someone which manage to trick people and get power through manipulation rather than merit, Im not talking about police forces which are merely and arm of law, Im talking about political leaders,scientists and that whole mass of "moral enlighted people".

Any fvcking time I hear that we should give more rights and support to X than to Y and then again to T, the only common denominator is that I never fit in any of those group yet Im expected to give full contribution in terms of my own goddman money, in terms or "respect" and even tolerance...in most cases X can call me names while I cannot even say that I dislike such things without harsh conseguences.

They tell me we're free yet when someone messes his life up by being a cvnt my wallet has to open wheter I like it or not while if I want to take decisions which fall on me only or someone else which agrees with me, Im threated of heavy conseguences.

I believe a free fair society is not one where any trash is free to smell anywhere he wants nor one where those who screams the most are right.

I agree with that guy who said that a real free society is that society where you can go hide in a corner and nobody is gonna come to tell you what to do "for your own good".

And dont let me started about all the lies and manipulation most of us are victim, this society reminds me those high school "common" buffets where anyone was supposed to bring some food to share yet the teachers and scumbags not only didnt bring anything but ate the most...and god saves anyone who dares to point it out and politely ask to be left outside the project.

Now coming back to our point, it seems that even to have a shot with a girl you have to work like a slave follow countless rules where a single wrong step could either leave you on empty hands or subjected to punishment of various nature, we're gonna have a leash on our balls in few years with some "morally superior" individual pulling it for our own good.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When stuff like this crosses mind I reassure myself i'll die someday :)
 

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SamTheHobit said:
When stuff like this crosses mind I reassure myself i'll die someday :)
I dont wanna die, I just wanna kick as much asses as possible untill freedom is given back to everyone who deserves it and the bad guys are broken down on the ground.

Even this comedy of "democratic elections" where a wolf, a pork and an eagle vote about the taxes for those flying.
 

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You shouldnt get angry about stuff that you can't realistically change. Choose to live your life how it should be and forget about the others and how they flounder about. Sure, things can't be perfect but we can keep everything on the up and up on our side of things
 

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Hell yeah! Your almost 30. I'm not your therapist but I'm guessing your seeing things differently now and realizing we've been lied to our whole lives. It hit me about the same age. Honestly it rattled me at first, sucks when you find out your reality has been a giant mind fvck. Then I got angry, like you. Frustrated with a lack of retaliation. Don't Stop now. Don't turn back because what your seeing is uncomfortable. Dig deeper, find more. Educate yourself and others. The day will come when the masses will exact revenge on the powers that be. The revolution will be televised.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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