"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you dudes use shirt stays to keep your shirt in place?

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No matter what I do, my dress shirts always come up and you have that muffin top look. I've trim slim fit and super slim fit, doesn't matter, the shirt comes out of the pants. I've tried tucking in the undershirt, no good. A cop friend of mine told me about shirt stays he uses for his uniform, Anyone use these? They just look really weird, and if we're getting hot and heavy, they'd look really strange when I take my clothes off. They look like freakin garter belts.

https://www.amazon.com/Garter-Style...2&s=gateway&sprefix=shirt+stay,aps,367&sr=8-4

https://www.amazon.com/Worlds-Shirt...7&s=gateway&sprefix=shirt+stay,aps,367&sr=8-3
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A buddy of mine swears by them and I'm considering them myself. If I pull the trigger I'll post a review here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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