"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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do you do this stuff?

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hey there,just wondering if you would go this far to look good for women?

plucking eyebrows lol,i wouldnt mind doing it a bit,but dont wanna end having to do it everyday...

and it seems a bit girly lol,i already have to shave everyday... what else do you guys do thats a bit girly? like that and should we do it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I pluck eyebrows, sand nails, shave all my body hair, dress very nice.

But mostly its to enhance my over all image. I like walking in a public area and feeling jealous hate from other men as im sarging chicks.
 

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ohh ok,does where you pluck grow back quickly? cause i dont wanna hafto do it everyday or anything,and ive seen girls where theyve done it and you can see the dots where their hair is growing back and it looks gross..

GROSSEST thing,my ex gf when i was dating her lifted her arms up and under her arm where she shaves it looked like a guys face does a few days after shaving where it is starting to grow back,grossest thing ive ever seen
 

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it will usually last for like a few days... My eyebrows wont need to be replucked for about a week.

It is gross, Girls who dont shave their arm pits everyday, will get the grain.
 

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I waxed my entire face, twice.

Its not worth the hassle though, because it takes 40 minutes to wax it, it hurts rather bad, and it won't last 2 weeks before the hair is coming out again.

More time-efficient and far less painful to just shave :\
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I do my eyebrows, no-one likes a unibrow... you'd get ripped for it off your mates if you did have one. Only takes a minute and only gotta do it once a week or something...

I wouldn't shave my body though, while I wouldn't class it as gay it's just an effort, and I don't see anything wrong with body hair.
 

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Shaving will not make hair grow back faster, this is a myth.

SHaving is fast and easy. Waxing is messy and takes a long time.

I shave in the shower with soap and/or cream.

I use the product: "Skintimate"

make sure to get the pink capped one if you have sensitive skin.
 

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ohh ok good to see other guys routines,i have heaps of hair on my chest,and have been told by 1 or 2 girls saying i should wax it,but geez ....

i can understand shave your face for them,i can understand shave your back

but im NEVER gonna shave my chest,otherwise where will it end?

i have a few hairs in between my eye brows,and from up close prolly dosent look too nice,so i'll start plucking them
 

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Every now and then I run my razor between my eyebrows.

I shave my chest, pits, pubes...

For a while there I shaved my arms, and once or twice I've shaved my legs. I hate the itch when you first start.


However, you get used to it, and women love smooth.
 

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MAVER1CK said:
Shaving will not make hair grow back faster, this is a myth.

SHaving is fast and easy. Waxing is messy and takes a long time.

I shave in the shower with soap and/or cream.

I use the product: "Skintimate"

make sure to get the pink capped one if you have sensitive skin.

its not a myth. itll make the hairs come out rigid and prickly. dont shave. plus later on youll end up having to shave every other day.

i recomend getting a mens shaver.

i believe there was a post on the shaver a while ago.

anyways you can google it: Norelco Mens Shaver...its on amazon for 36 bucks. worth it though.

You can shave EVERYWHERE with it ;)



btw...some of you on here are gettin wayyyyy to feminin with yourselves.

plz stop

tanx

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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theres no problem in having your body in shape, looking nice, being well groomed, and all


but when you start to say really girly things that follow it....it then becomes ghey
 

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Personally, I like my chest hair, but the hair coming in on my shoulders and back is starting to bug me :p I usually keep a full beard too, lumberjack macho
 

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Charm&Style said:
its not a myth. itll make the hairs come out rigid and prickly. dont shave. plus later on youll end up having to shave every other day.

I believe the fact that you have to shave more and more frequently doesn't relate to shaving, but rather to the fact that your body is producing more and more hormones, which causes hair to grow in thicker. I remember when I was in 5th grade and had that furry little wanna be mustache. I didnt shave it until 7th grade, but it still kept getting thicker, and I started growing hair on my chin as well. However, when you initially start shaving, of course you may suffer from ingrown hairs because hair is rather "sharp" and may grow back into the skin.

Shaving your body hair is much like CUTTING your hair. It doesn't cause it to grown quicker, or thicker. It grows at much the same rate as if you didn't shave. Look at an average grown man who has NEVER shaved in their life, and they will have a large amount of facial hair, probably long as f*ck. If you can provide SCIENTIFIC proof that shaving makes your hair grow "thicker and quicker" then I'll be happy to read it.

As for this whole "gay" thing, I shave due to the fact that I hate hair. I don't care how "feminine" you guys think it is. I would much rather be muscular and smooth, than muscular and hairy. Shaving allows for multiple benefits, such as not leaving my women with a mouth full of hair, and making my 6-pack wanna be more visible. If you don't do it, thats fine. However, for those guys who DO want to, its much like hair cuts. Some guys prefer to have longer hair, some prefer to have shorter hair, while some prefer to be bald. It's their choice. Doesn't make you "gay" or "girly". Having sex with a man makes you "gay", wearing womens clothes, eyeliner, lipstick and high heels makes you "girly". Not shaving body hair. I understand that many of you have your opinions and that's fine. Go ahead and offer them. However, don't become offended (not that any of you have) if somebody comes in and counters them.

Thanks for reading that guys, now I have to go take a monster piss.
 

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i shave too, but its just ghey how some guys get all feminin with it:rock:
 

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How so?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I do it once a week or once every other week. It does become sorta apparte that i puck my unibrow, i don't care as long as i don't have one.
 

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apparte?

Not sure what you mean.

Apparent?

And I have a few hairs in the middle of mine, I just run a razor over it, the end. In a few weeks, a few little hairs, scwhoop. The end.
 

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The only hair I allow on my face is my eyebrows. And I pluck the unibrow, it lasts longer than shaving and only takes like one minute every week or two.
 
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Are u guys g*y or something? Waxing your face? what!? that's chick talk. jeez if you have hair between your eyebrows just shave it off. Shaving chest, arms and legs is g*y. I'm a swimmer and I don't even do it your all brainwashed to think that chicks like it. Seriously the only hair you should shave is your facial and eye brow hair. You should maybe trim your pubes and pit hair but never shave it all off...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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