Do you do poorly with the kind of women you prefer?

[Rolled Stones]

I talked to my friends about this.

One of my friends loves Persian girls a lot and he is a buff Asian guy, he says he does bad with them. He doesn't have much love for gingers or blondes but from what I see they give him a lot of attention.

Another one of my friends is a Brazilain guy that loves White women, he looks like a mix between black and white, and I have seen him date good looking Latinas along with a gorgeous Asian white mix. Tells me White women treat him poorly.

 

[foreverAFC]

i like cute nerdy chicks but they are never into me, they seem to like goofy looking hipster douches

i also like really in-shape women but they always want big roided guys since guys who dont do roids dont appear to be into working out as much a big roided guy

 

[European-DJ]

My problem is usually that I tend to get nervous around the girls that meet all of my criterial, whereas girls who doesn't I easily attract. I guess it is all about attitude.

 

[expos]

Always.

I would to like date a short blonde with some nice curves, round face, definitely not fat though, great boobs.

I attract the exact opposite of that. Tall brunettes, flat chested, usually lean.

Quite frustrating to be honest.

 

[TheGambino]

I love latinas, puerto rican, dominican, colombian and brasilian girls. but i live in holland so i guess i got to move there soon, im tanned myself. I like them coz of their bodies, their firy personality's, they can cook, and I love the accent and language. I think ill be to eager around them tho

 

[Mike32ct]

I like highly intelligent women but rarely hit it off with them, except for vacation flings with horny teachers.

This is the main reason I never really dated. Without an intellectual-type connection, I'm not interested.

It's really not about looks anymore. It's compatibility that is pretty much impossible to find.

 

[Jaylan]

^Agree. I like a hot girl as much as the next guy, but what set my ex apart was her intellect and personality on top of being a cutie with a sexy body. Hell, I didnt even notice the body on her first. I fell for her based on how we bantered back and forth. Its super rare to find the right kinda girl Id be willing to commit to, which is why at 26 Ive only had 2 relationships in my life.

Flings leave a lot to be desired a good bit of the time for me. Sometimes you really miss a real connection with a chick. Sure Im still young and shouldnt care to much, but I do worry about not finding someone compatible to me an ending up still single at an older age.

But thats still better than settling. I will never ever settle and end up in some lame relationship that I dont feel right in.

Anyways...so yeah OP, I dont really tend to get the exact girls I want. I can make slight concessions on a girls looks in the personality and click is there. However, over the last few years, the girls who seem to like me dont really have that brainy edge I look for.

 

[Rolled Stones]

I like highly intelligent women but rarely hit it off with them, except for vacation flings with horny teachers.

This is the main reason I never really dated. Without an intellectual-type connection, I'm not interested.

It's really not about looks anymore. It's compatibility that is pretty much impossible to find.

how many of those have you had?

 

[Mike32ct]

how many of those have you had?

Two

 

[like2jam]

Well, incredibly poorly. I haven't been able to score at all yet with super-hot, horny, japanese virgins with big boobs that also speak English. So damn frustrating!

 

[crossedup]

I really want a pretty (6-9, preferably 9, 6 is tolerable) girl with high character. Seriously, character matters more to me than anything. This girl is incredibly rare, so when she comes along I want to be on top of my game. Unfortunately this causes me to think too much and I f*ck up much more easily. And honestly, I'm a kind of a douche and those types of women don't really care for my arrogance and more ****y behavior, but that's more of who I am now than anything. This comes off the wrong way to these types, they don't know me and they do make judgments based off my first impressions.

You want what you can't have...

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I did last night....really curvy hispanic girl walks in bar....every guy in there is eye ****ing her trying to get near her. So i figured I will wait it out make some strong flirty eye contact here and there...nothing to desperate. So I was at a table with a few friends....she ****s down at the bar. I go to grab a beer. And she looks at me and starts talking to me. I was thinking inside YES!!!!!!!! We had a 5 minute 10 minute convo then all the thirst buckets tried talking to her and another women and she got distracted. So I sat got me a shot some beers and I was pretty buzzed...I have a super high sex drive so I was getting thirsty and I got clingy and put here accidently on a pedestal and bam I blew it. I realize I need to be sober because when I'm buzzed or drunk I get thirsty impatient and brutally honest

 

[crossedup]

Im in the exact same boat. All this "Game" stuff where you come across as someone really experienced with women and pretty ****y does not seem to do so well with the quality chicks. OR it could just be that the quality character chicks are shooting WAY out of their league, because they know they have value.

I always think about that. Those girls may appreciate more AFC traits, which frankly I don't really show. I don't build interest through compliments or gifts, and I refuse to put myself beneath a woman like that. That is the only thing that makes me nervous about learning this type of stuff. Otherwise, site has been great.

What is high character anyways? You can't easily quantify it. Is a girl who shoots way out of her own league considered quality? I wouldn't think so. As I said, I'm a bit of a douche, so I'll go over my own qualities: good looks and great bod, plenty of money, strong status among friends, strong personality and deep convictions. Honestly, many men would want to be me my life is pretty great. I try not to take it personally when shot down by these "quality" girls, but then I can't help but think to myself "you are a f*cking dumbass, you will never ever find someone better than me, I am out of YOUR league b*tch." I have high standards because I have worked my ass off my whole life to this point, and it would be great to get a little recognition from the girls I really want. If life were fair, which it isn't, I would be matched up with a very attractive girl with a great personality and strong moral value, but that's not how the cookie tends to crumble. Constantly having hot, but low quality women into me is annoying at best now. I'm ready for something more, and I really don't give a f*ck about racking up numbers on the bedpost. Seems to me like many guys here want the same thing.

I have to agree, these women are shooting way out of their league and they are not able to look past first impressions. You get one chance, and if you show any sign of weakness, or you make any type of mistake you are f*cked no matter how awesome you may be.

This means these girls need to be qualified now more than ever, to see if they match up with your own standards and to be put in their f*cking place, beneath you, the man.

 

[bluenorther]

Yuppie suburbanites do it for me. I see them coming out of the fitness center, wearing skin-tight workout clothes. Trouble is, they don't live here because they're single, they live here because they want good schools for the kiddies.

 

[mr. kennedy]

I always think about that. Those girls may appreciate more AFC traits, which frankly I don't really show. I don't build interest through compliments or gifts, and I refuse to put myself beneath a woman like that. That is the only thing that makes me nervous about learning this type of stuff. Otherwise, site has been great.

What is high character anyways? You can't easily quantify it. Is a girl who shoots way out of her own league considered quality? I wouldn't think so. As I said, I'm a bit of a douche, so I'll go over my own qualities: good looks and great bod, plenty of money, strong status among friends, strong personality and deep convictions. Honestly, many men would want to be me my life is pretty great. I try not to take it personally when shot down by these "quality" girls, but then I can't help but think to myself "you are a f*cking dumbass, you will never ever find someone better than me, I am out of YOUR league b*tch." I have high standards because I have worked my ass off my whole life to this point, and it would be great to get a little recognition from the girls I really want. If life were fair, which it isn't, I would be matched up with a very attractive girl with a great personality and strong moral value, but that's not how the cookie tends to crumble. Constantly having hot, but low quality women into me is annoying at best now. I'm ready for something more, and I really don't give a f*ck about racking up numbers on the bedpost. Seems to me like many guys here want the same thing.

I have to agree, these women are shooting way out of their league and they are not able to look past first impressions. You get one chance, and if you show any sign of weakness, or you make any type of mistake you are f*cked no matter how awesome you may be.

This means these girls need to be qualified now more than ever, to see if they match up with your own standards and to be put in their f*cking place, beneath you, the man.

I do believe that chicks who have reached a certain age that got screwed over by jerks so many times do prefer a guy with a little more AFC traits.

 

[Packers2010]

girls are just girls. they're not good, not bad, not hot nor ugly. they are just girls.

sometimes we forget that.