"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do You Do EveryThing The DJbible Says and Still Fail?

CapiCrimini

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Everything in the bible is great, and always will be. But now and then you'll see people who read it and put it to heart and still fail...

The Reasons.

1. People are over-analizing
2. People are focusing on the weakness'
3. People think to much about what there doing.

The first and last tend to heal themselves with time and practice, the third is the most deadly to developing DJ skills.Here's why.

All over the World people focus on the negatives, when a child braing home 4 A's and 1 C's... which grade are the parents most likely to talk about the most.... the C. I went to the bookstroe yesterday and glanced at the psycology isle... Almost all the books were "How to Cure Depression" I only saw one that said... "How to become Happy"... when your preparing for your job your trying to be a well-rounded student...

People worldwide tend to focus on there weakness' more then there strenghts.

So when your a DJ and your trying to be C&F and you really arn't it's not good for your game.

When you were born your brain blossumed like a flower... and ever since it's started to shrink and get smaller... most people look at it as a curse, but truly it's the beauty of nature... In your fist days you absorb so much information that it's hard to sort through it all, but as you get older your brain trys to just focus on a few categories, a few area's and trims the rest of them...

So if your bad at C&F then you should do damage controll to get it to a workable point...

And if your stength anf talent is Storytelling, then focus on becoming better at that...

this is pretty basic and simple but often overlooked.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
3. People think to much about what there doing.
Yes, and no-one thinks as much as you!
 

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In some places the DJ bible pretty much contradicts itself - atleast thats what I noticed at points.

I dont really think it's there to follow to the letter, just as a guideline. These are all the things that usually work, get out there, try some, experiment, and find *yourself*.
 

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DJ ben you are right it does contradict itself and i have noticed this myself aswell, there is a reason for this, it is not so much because diffrent people have diffrnet veiws (although this does play a part) but is actuly for the same reason that cosmoligists like stephen hawking for example, can not find a theory of everytinhg for the universe. Well the same thing goes here, there is no rule or rules that govern everytihng, there are always exceptions and because diffrent girls like diffrnet things and the same girl may like two opposites such as loud guys, and also queitly confident guys.

A true DJ must be able to use trial and error to find out what diffrent girls like, obviously you do not want to change yourself for each girl, this is not what being aDJ is about but you should be able to adjust the amount of things such as C&F that you use i mix my neg hits with C&F some girls can not take much of it before they get upset so i need to make sure i do not go over board.
 
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