As we all know, being a rebound is really annoying due to the inconsistency/mixed messages of the female. Lot of effort must be put to get maybe some results - am not talking about ONS. the female I'm talking about has had at least a 2 years relationship with highs and lows and maybe the ex is still around. Is it worth it? In my opinion it isn't and she should stay single for at least 6 months but i'm curious about your opinion
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do you date girls that just got out from a LTR?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Depends on the girl, would probably make a great plate or f buddy but wouldnt expect anything too serious out of it, for now at least. Trying to make hard and fast rules like this is nearly impossible though, everyone is different. Some people will drop out of a LTR and jump right back into another, gota just feel it out. If the interest level is there, its there. If it isnt it isnt, im not sure the past makes a whole lot of difference.
Cerwin Vega
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First, check on her boyfriend. You don't want a broken spine just for messing with someone's ex. (true story, happened to a guy in my neighborhood)
gravityeyelids
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No. You Bang Them.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Would depend on a few things. One big red flag for me is; is she still in regular contact with the ex? Do they talk/text every day and is he still a part of her life? Or has she moved on? How long ago did they break up? If its only been a couple weeks she's likely looking for an ego boost and someone to fill that void. If it's only been a short time she still has strong feelings for him, that could cause problems for you.
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Unless he dumped her (which is generally a bad sign), most girls who would want a LTR right after a LTR, would have had something set up already and merely swung branches
6 months, wtf? she will be in another relationship in 6 months bro :crackup:joker79 said:
you don't want to be in a relationship with them, you just want to fvck them, when they get too annoying you drop them for other plates
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you can fck them, just remember to NEVER involve with them emotionally because they will fck you up. guaranteed.