As we all know, being a rebound is really annoying due to the inconsistency/mixed messages of the female. Lot of effort must be put to get maybe some results - am not talking about ONS. the female I'm talking about has had at least a 2 years relationship with highs and lows and maybe the ex is still around. Is it worth it? In my opinion it isn't and she should stay single for at least 6 months but i'm curious about your opinion
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do you date girls that just got out from a LTR?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Depends on the girl, would probably make a great plate or f buddy but wouldnt expect anything too serious out of it, for now at least. Trying to make hard and fast rules like this is nearly impossible though, everyone is different. Some people will drop out of a LTR and jump right back into another, gota just feel it out. If the interest level is there, its there. If it isnt it isnt, im not sure the past makes a whole lot of difference.
Cerwin Vega
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First, check on her boyfriend. You don't want a broken spine just for messing with someone's ex. (true story, happened to a guy in my neighborhood)
gravityeyelids
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No. You Bang Them.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Would depend on a few things. One big red flag for me is; is she still in regular contact with the ex? Do they talk/text every day and is he still a part of her life? Or has she moved on? How long ago did they break up? If its only been a couple weeks she's likely looking for an ego boost and someone to fill that void. If it's only been a short time she still has strong feelings for him, that could cause problems for you.
gravityeyelids
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Unless he dumped her (which is generally a bad sign), most girls who would want a LTR right after a LTR, would have had something set up already and merely swung branches
6 months, wtf? she will be in another relationship in 6 months bro :crackup:joker79 said:
you don't want to be in a relationship with them, you just want to fvck them, when they get too annoying you drop them for other plates
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you can fck them, just remember to NEVER involve with them emotionally because they will fck you up. guaranteed.