"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you consider "likes" on facebook a way of flirting

JdelaSilviera

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What do you guys think?

Lots of girls I have on fb, can reach 100+ likes in their profile photos. Does this give us a glimpse of the number of guys that are trying to fvck her?.

My gut says yes.. and this is a bit scary, because every girl who is a 6.5+ has tons of likes by guys, and many of them are good looking. The competition is becoming crazy... I think one having 6 packs and a fit body should become the norm here in order to have a somewhat smooth sailing with women (not guaranteed though). If you have average looks and personality/game prepare to suffer many disappointments.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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YES - I had an HB 8-9 who I NEXTED for over a year after she flaked on a 2nd date. I reconnected with her a year later and FB friended her, she kept 'LIKING' pictures on my album and comments I made on my wall.

We ended up going out on 2 more dates, with the last one she invited me over on Christmas Day for dinner and she cooked me a 4 course meal.

I had NEXTED her again after she spilled out sh!t during dinner on how she wish she had a BF who would pay her rent. WTF!! LOL.... Gold Digger.

So YES - a woman usually doesn't 'LIKE' someone's FB contents repeatedly without some ulterior motive.

Exodus
 

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What do you think? every horny dude is going to like her photo and tell her how hot she is. not to mention fill up her inbox with messages.
 

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No. FB is a female ego stroker, and a delusional hope-maker for men.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skinnyguy said:
You should get off fb. It makes you cynical.
Agreed. It just opens up a new world of total BS.
 

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I deleted my Facebook more than 4 years ago and my life has been a whole lot better since then. My dates ask for my Facebook (so they can snoop on me and see what kind of guy I am) and it's refreshing seeing the looks on their faces when I tell them I don't have one. They ask for my Twitter but I don't have one either.
 

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El Payaso said:
I deleted my Facebook more than 4 years ago and my life has been a whole lot better since then. My dates ask for my Facebook (so they can snoop on me and see what kind of guy I am) and it's refreshing seeing the looks on their faces when I tell them I don't have one. They ask for my Twitter but I don't have one either.
I get asked the same BS as well. I take it they give you a surprised look when you say you're not on either ? They do with me, like - "I can't believe your not on FB, everyone is suppose to be on it !". :crazy:
 

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adam225 said:
I get asked the same BS as well. I take it they give you a surprised look when you say you're not on either ? They do with me, like - "I can't believe your not on FB, everyone is suppose to be on it !". :crazy:
Yup. They look at me like "what kinda weirdo are you?" I love it though. It keeps the mystery going and they're always texting me trying to chat me up and learn more about me. At least anything they learn about me comes from me rather than mundane posts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does this give us a glimpse of the number of guys that are trying to fvck her?

Absolutely. As said above, fb is very useful for intel.
 
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