"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stonetowers

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They say that most women who are in relationships still go out of there way to get noticed.When a women shows interest in you who is taken,do you believe you should honor the male following the "do onto others way of things,or do you believe it's every man for themselves?What's your take on the scenario?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PRMoon

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grrr i hate wasting post like this! You need to clarify your question lacks definative substance. In the first part you note that girls go out of their way to get noticed. Then you question whether it's everyman for himself or look out for your fellow man. I dress to impress if i'm in a relationship or not, but i'm not necessarily stepping on anyone's toes either. Are you asking if I go hunting while i'm in a relationship or if I seek attention while i'm engaged in a relationship with anyone?
 

Rex Man

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Unless you have loyalty reasons to not mess around with the girl, who gives a flying squirrel's fu<k? It is HER responsibility of commitment, not yours. YOU ARE NOT the one in a relationship.
 

afrojiggles

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what the hell ? i'd **** a girl messign around with a lion's balls,lol
 

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I don't fvck w/ women who are taken any more. I used to think every man for himself but the way I look at people now, once you get your social skills and identity in order, you realize how your actions influence those around you. so if you're not starved for pvssy and got options, why be a shthead
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scars

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If I'm friends with the girl's BF then I wont even consider it, no matter how hard the girl persues me.

If some girl has a douchebag BF, or a BF that looks like a chump and know I could probably beat his ass anyway.. then I'll go for it.

I kind of had a predicament the other day with a guy who fvcking threatened me over myspace (can you believe that?) for hanging out with "his girl", even though they're not even dating. I gave the guy my phone number and told him if he was serious we could set up a time and place and handle it.. but he "read" the message and never called. So whatever. I'm not one to step up anyone's toes though, so I just nexted her. There's plenty of girls out there.. but if the girl is a keeper, don't ever let ANYONE get in the way of what you want. Ever. That's my philosophy.
 

trv26

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each to their own, unless its ur friend.

You do not have any idea how the other person would act, if the situation was reversed.
 
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