thunderbolt
Don Juan
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just curious. if so why or why not? reason i ask is the consensus has been that all of them are evil, but once in awhile i meet one that is an exception.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maximus Rex said:However, Rex believes that they lack integrity, in addition to not valuing loyalty and friendship.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ThisMaximus Rex said:However, Rex believes that they lack integrity, in addition to not valuing loyalty and friendship.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I think Midnight City's absolutely right. Women are different from men, I don't think anybody here is going to deny that.MidnightCity said:good and evil are just concepts.
animals do horrible things to each other all the time. it doesnt make them evil. its merely natural. basic observation and understanding will tell you that such behavior is rooted in survival.
same goes for men and women.
hypergamy is ruthless and harsh. but so is male sexual selectivity. 2 sides of the same coin.
I feel so fortunate to have such a great mother, but I know the majority are not. My father divorced my mother in 84. She objected but got remarried after. My mom is a nurse of many years.No.Danny said:They are.
UNTIL proven otherwise. I can tell you this because even my mother doesn't respect my father.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.