Do you believe that girls may be turned on from men getting angry?

[Who Dares Win]

Im asking myself that from many times, even considered that they piss us off automatically in order to make us angry, angry men tends to be less gentle and less afc, going to the point and be honest so it would make sense.

However recently it happened something to me, picked up this girl and had a date with her, tried to kiss her and she rejected the kiss giving a signal of very low interest, I imagined there would have been no other date but wanted to kiss her anyway so I just holded her face and kissed her briefly which costed me a slap which I deflected at the last second.

Then I called her a month later (plates were either out of town or left) and she accepted to meet after some pressure, we went to grab an umbrella in my place and I went again for the kiss which she rejected again, so I got pissed off and started asking in a uncalm way "what the fvck did she want from me" and that I dont need a female friend and she knows quite well what I want.

She told me that I was scaring her and I told her that she was pissing me off and probably like to do that, so I started grabbing my stuff to leave the place and she kissed me near the door, she was probably genuinely scared and did to protect herself but the funny thing is that anytime I ask her to go out after some resistance she accepts despite it was obvious in the beginning through her sarcasm and attitude that she didnt like me.

 

[nismo-4]

A kiss close rejection is low interest. I woulda dropped her ass right there and that would be it. A girl will get turned on from an angry man if he's attractive. Being angry shows just how frustrated she's making you, thus making her more distant.

Me, I'm about my business. I tell b**ches straight up that I'm not looking to be just friends, and to get lost if you are.

Your case needs more reviews.

 

[Chamber36]

I say: yes.

I believe women can be turned on by a show of aggression from a man. I even read a post about it by Rollo Tomassi, he was saying how a beta's placcid demeanor and reluctance to get angry don't produce Vagina Tingles, whereas an Alpha who gets angry when being ****-tested(if just), will make the vagina tingle and become moist.

I live with a female, and I was reluctant to argue with her at first, but I noticed recently when we had over some company and I got pissed off at her, she was actually turned on. I got pissed off at her a few weeks later and then she started crying, which was a show of utter frustration IMO.

It's probably related to how women are attracted to a man who is willing to kill a man.

The anger should stem from a root of Alpha-ness and not beta frustration and non-clarity (A fight or flight response), it should be rational and I be seperate from outcome regarding pvssy. It's about asserting where your limits are.

A man with firm limits to what he will tolerate from another person is attractive to women.

 

[user name]

Im asking myself that from many times, even considered that they piss us off automatically in order to make us angry, angry men tends to be less gentle and less afc, going to the point and be honest so it would make sense.

However recently it happened something to me, picked up this girl and had a date with her, tried to kiss her and she rejected the kiss giving a signal of very low interest, I imagined there would have been no other date but wanted to kiss her anyway so I just holded her face and kissed her briefly which costed me a slap which I deflected at the last second.

Then I called her a month later (plates were either out of town or left) and she accepted to meet after some pressure, we went to grab an umbrella in my place and I went again for the kiss which she rejected again, so I got pissed off and started asking in a uncalm way "what the fvck did she want from me" and that I dont need a female friend and she knows quite well what I want.

She told me that I was scaring her and I told her that she was pissing me off and probably like to do that, so I started grabbing my stuff to leave the place and she kissed me near the door, she was probably genuinely scared and did to protect herself but the funny thing is that anytime I ask her to go out after some resistance she accepts despite it was obvious in the beginning through her sarcasm and attitude that she didnt like me.

wow. i'm going to have to try that. although the last time i tried to do this she called the police on me.

 

[user name]

I say: yes.

I believe women can be turned on by a show of aggression from a man. I even read a post about it by Rollo Tomassi, he was saying how a beta's placcid demeanor and reluctance to get angry don't produce Vagina Tingles, whereas an Alpha who gets angry when being ****-tested(if just), will make the vagina tingle and become moist.

I live with a female, and I was reluctant to argue with her at first, but I noticed recently when we had over some company and I got pissed off at her, she was actually turned on. I got pissed off at her a few weeks later and then she started crying, which was a show of utter frustration IMO.

It's probably related to how women are attracted to a man who is willing to kill a man.

The anger should stem from a root of Alpha-ness and not beta frustration and non-clarity (A fight or flight response), it should be rational and I be seperate from outcome regarding pvssy. It's about asserting where your limits are.

A man with firm limits to what he will tolerate from another person is attractive to women.

i'm confused. i always thought it was alphas who didnt show anger. here now i am reading betas don't get angry. which is it?

 

[Chamber36]

i'm confused. i always thought it was alphas who didnt show anger. here now i am reading betas don't get angry. which is it?

It's not supposed to be a tantrum. It should be congruent with your personality.

If you are normally calm and suddenly become angry, chances are it will be disregarded.

Here is an example of what I mean. It can even be a bit extremer imo, but it has to be calibrated to the situation.

 

[Who Dares Win]

i'm confused. i always thought it was alphas who didnt show anger. here now i am reading betas don't get angry. which is it?

Its not the anger itself but the reason and from which position you are aggressive, it makes a difference if you are angry from a position of power or a position of weakness.

Beta from a position of weakness:

1) girls say to guy that if he pay dinner for her and her friends she will kiss him, he does and then she refuse to kiss...he gets mad and say " but you yold me that you were going to kiss me you're a b1tch".


Alpha from a position of strenght:

2)Guy is working on his car, she comes to him and ask him to go to the commercial center cause she wants to see some clothes, he tells her that she has to wait till he is done.

She comes 5 minutes later and starts shouting at him, he ignores her and keep working.

She comes again after 10 minutes and turns off the electricity line leaving him in total darkness in the garage, he goes insinde the house starts shouting at her and tells her that she can forget the commercial center for a week then shout at her again to turn on the light back.

 

[mv.89]

TBH every book or informational video I've seen from any great MAN

always has a punchline that you simply cannot let others get a hold of your

emotions regardless of what they do.

Think about it - if someone else's actions or an unwanted outcome

can throw you off your balance they how balanced were you ?

This is an insanely hard task to master but every damn situation on the planet

can be solved calmly. Also, there is a difference between anger and aggression.

Never ever let anyone/anything make you angry/mad. I'll be honest I know

all this even then sometimes I lose control.

Stay calm, stay hungry and stay driven

 

[Bible_Belt]

People in general get turned on by all sorts of irrational things. I've had a girl practically rape me one night after I lost my cool and yelled at a guy in a bar who was about to make out with her.

But just because a certain behavior gets a pvssy wet, does not make it sane, wise, or anything that should be emulated. Keeping your cool is still the smartest way to go.

 

[dasein]

Women are emotionally stimulated by passion, anger is just a subset of passion. If there is enough passion in your life in other ways, and you naturally express it, you never need to get angry to excite a woman. The proper response to a woman turning cheek is to smile and wink at her. This response has gotten me laid quickly more than I can count on both hands and feet. Be a playful cad instead of a pouty little b-tch. The sex will be much better and frequent.

Take every opportunity when engaging a woman physically to communicate, "this is totally natural and your response, whatever it is, is natural and ok too." This is extremely important, and lets them know subtly that 1. They have permission to explore their desires as ends in themselves with you without any struggle because, hey, it's just good clean fun, not an angst moment; and 2. You aren't going to put aside -your- desires just because they give you a mild rejection one time, your sexual attention is so much more powerful and persistent than that... implying subtly that the woman you call ten minutes after leaving her will love to be kissed by you. Your sexual attention is a sublime gift you give, not a hat held in a beggar's hand where every coin or lack of one from a passerby is accounted.

If they misbehave to an extent that justifies an angry response, and you don't show it out of insecurity, then that is a definite turnoff. If you don't show anger out of refusing to engage in minutiae, that OTOH builds respect IME. Sometimes you have to tell them this subtly without rubbing their nose in it to get the point across, "I can't be bothered with this kind of crap, it's beneath me, save it for your GFs." (attitude not words here) If you don't have that "spare me the minutiae" attitude in all aspects of your life, but passively accept their bad behavior, they sense this and may mistake kindness for weakness or insecurity.

Kindness and anger both should come from a position of strength. As ole Sun Tzu tells us, "don't fight a battle you are not assured of winning beforehand."

 

[DoubleBarrel]

Women definitely get turned on when men get angry, even at them. But there's a criteria as others have eluded to. It has to be aroused by someone treating you in a way that's unacceptable and you calling them out on it in a controlled manner.

A while ago, a girl I was seeing called me out of the blue at 2am or 3am.

I said, "Why the fvck are you calling me this late? I was sleeping. What the fvck is the matter with you? Don't you know what the fvcking time is!?"

Her response?

"Say fvck again. It's turning me on."