"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you believe in Love at 1st sight?

Do you believe in Love at 1st sight?

  • Yes

    Votes: 9 40.9%

  • No

    Votes: 13 59.1%
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Do you? .. If so, have you got any interesting stories about it? Please share;)


Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im not sure this is a yes or no question.

i vote "perhaps":cheer:
 
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I've found love to be a very difficult thing. I think there's definate attraction or chemistry at first sight, but love has so much depth that to love some one usually takes time.
 
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Agreed

Originally posted by PRMoon
I've found love to be a very difficult thing. I think there's definate attraction or chemistry at first sight, but love has so much depth that to love some one usually takes time.
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Thats also how I see it;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't know about love, but I have experienced instant attraction at first sight. I guess I can describe this as seeing a girl for the first time and right there and then knowing she is special and I want her bad!

I don't know if that qualifies as love whatever!
 
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Originally posted by PRMoon
I've found love to be a very difficult thing. I think there's definate attraction or chemistry at first sight, but love has so much depth that to love some one usually takes time.
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Right on!
 
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I believe in "connection at first sight". Sometimes 2 people are so compatible that they hit it off from the first second they meet. Wouldnt call it love though, that takes time.
 
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Lust at first sight

Lust at first sight is a fact.

Love, in the sense it's spoken of here, takes time to develop.
 
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