"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do you bang girls with ugly faces and great bodies?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
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Roober
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1) one tall and slender, she is sexy as h3ll. She does have a bit of a nose though...
2) fun size with a great rack and butt, and also sexy as h3ll in a different way. Attractiveness just on the face is probably a 6.5 or so. Also helps that she is COMPLETELY submissive, brings me gifts regularly, and is fvcking amazing in the sack.
For me, I think I have a harder time with women who have bad bodies (i.e. some extra weight, small b00bs, awkward booty, etc.)
If the woman is larger, or has extra fat around the belly, I have a hard time getting into it. Nothing you can do to avoid that situation...
If she has a great bod, but is okay on the face, I think I can dig it much more
I think it is because you can always turn her around, close your eyes, and foreplay usually limits how much you look at their face. There is something undeniably sexy about looking at a naked woman on my bed with a curvy body lying on her side
My ex had a very pretty face, but teeny tiny boobs, and a decent naked booty (damn spanx make some booties fools gold), so not as easy to get into secks
An ugly or masculine face takes me out of it. There are some exceptions where a woman might be very sexy and her body and personality make up for her face, but its rare.
PeasantPlayer
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Just don't look at the face, look @ the body. A lot of females have banging bodies but the faces are marginal. Or pretty faces and the body isn't a 8 or a 10, might be a 5.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RangerMIke
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TheFixer14
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She had man hands!
only sometimes
Augustus_McCrae
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It's the body that usually gives the boner factor though.
Pretty face and bad body.... Not much boner factor.
-Augustus-
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.