Has anyone ever found that they attract certain kinds of women rather than just women in general? I've noticed over the last few years that I tend to attract both older women and black women while younger white women seem to take little interest in me (or at least they don't show it) I'm not complaining at all but I have found this kind of odd that these types seem to graviate toward me and and show interest. What do you think it is that causes this? Appearance and style? Physical features? or something
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Do You Attract Specific Types of Women?
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comic_relief
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I have attracted a certain personality.
For a while I attracted psycho chicks. Now, I attract semi-professional/stable girls.
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For a while I attracted psycho chicks. Now, I attract semi-professional/stable girls.
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War Against Betaism
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For some reason I attract black women and gay Filipino men...I've gotten a lot of compliments for my looks, and since I work out I have a reasonably nice body...not making generalizations but I guess black women and Filipino men like that stuff.
lol. gay filipino men.
I think I seem to attract a variety of personalities; it's just age and race that seems to be distinctive in who I attract. I just don't know what it is that causes this; whether it's my personality, appearance, dress, etc, I have no idea.
I think I seem to attract a variety of personalities; it's just age and race that seems to be distinctive in who I attract. I just don't know what it is that causes this; whether it's my personality, appearance, dress, etc, I have no idea.
I used to get alot of what we term 'feral' (I guess you guys might call them 'trailer trash' and that sort of thing, lol) chicks attracted to me. However, since tightening up my game and improving my clothing, I now attract the cute/sweet type of girls. The kind I'm after!
There was a post I recently read on 'what type are you?'. That was good reading, basically saying you need to learn your own type in order to attract the type you want.
There was a post I recently read on 'what type are you?'. That was good reading, basically saying you need to learn your own type in order to attract the type you want.
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I don't think I attract a particular type of woman. I've had everything from black girls liking me, to Asian girls, to white girls, to Europeans. I've had those trashy chicks fall for me, and as well as the classy ones. In school some gay dudes liked me... I have nothing against gay dudes, so I just take it as a compliment.
For the most part, I've noticed that mostly ugly girls fall for me and make it obvious. The hot ones hide it and until I actually make some moves, then they'll show their attraction and eventually things progress. While I've never been harshly rejected, back in my nerd days I've had girls flake on me, but I didn't let that stop me. Haha to myself, I was a player and could get any girl I wanted if I just tried!
I just like to assume that every girl is attracted to me. Makes me feel more confident when approaching! Hey... It works for me at least.
For the most part, I've noticed that mostly ugly girls fall for me and make it obvious. The hot ones hide it and until I actually make some moves, then they'll show their attraction and eventually things progress. While I've never been harshly rejected, back in my nerd days I've had girls flake on me, but I didn't let that stop me. Haha to myself, I was a player and could get any girl I wanted if I just tried!
I just like to assume that every girl is attracted to me. Makes me feel more confident when approaching! Hey... It works for me at least.
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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I use to attract gangster chicks when i use to be bald. I grew my hair out and now the chubby women seem to be more attracted to me. Now im gonna start dressing in more prep clothes to see what that does for me.
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lol i really enjoy this topic because me and my buddies discuss it all the time. Basically all my friends are of different ethnic groups. Out of my three closest friends, one is a black guy, while the other two are white and brown. What ive noticed out of my friends and myself is that we all have specific type of girls that are attracted to one of us based on looks alone. What type of girls find me attractive will not necessarily find my black friend attractive and vice versa. Now let me tell you in general people do have specifics of what they like. Psychologists say that generally people are attracted to others who have similar features as them or as their family members who they grew up with. Basically i can go out and look at a girl and generally 7 times out of 10 i can effectively predict what type of guy the hb would be most attracted to. Now keep in mind personality can definately change the girls perspective on the guy, but generally what ive noticed is most girls have a "specific" type. Thats my 0.02 cents.
Someone Much cooler
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this is nothing new fam.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
So far the only women that have been attracted to me where ugly fat girls...
AfRoSwiss-Disiac
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You dress what you want to attract.
YOu want trash you dress like it.
I sometimes dress like a thug with the tall white tees ...but they usually attract the type of women i DONT like
I like classy women so u will usually catch me in the nice slightly baggy jeans and the sportscoat sportin my 5 Euro sunglasses
No joke tho it does have to do with how u dress
YOu want trash you dress like it.
I sometimes dress like a thug with the tall white tees ...but they usually attract the type of women i DONT like
I like classy women so u will usually catch me in the nice slightly baggy jeans and the sportscoat sportin my 5 Euro sunglasses
No joke tho it does have to do with how u dress
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I'm half Italian, half Spanish with a tan complexion and have black hair. I get all kinds of women, but without a doubt I attract blondes the most. I think people are attracted to the opposite, at least I know I am.
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