do you ask them if they have any stds?

[STR8UP]

I think the take-home message here is dont have indiscriminate sex.

I can understand avoiding prostitutes, IV drug users, and even women who are KNOWN to sleep with many partners, but I think some guys get the idea that they can somehow look at any particular woman and tell if she's clean.

Awhile back I met a 21 yr old chick. She was the outspoken and crazy (in a good way) type, and she openly told me she had been with like 27 guys or something like that.

That's a pretty high number for any woman, especially a 21 yr old. So I guess if you wanted to use labels you could call her "promiscuous" or "slut".

I made out with her a couple of times and rubbed her pu$$y (through
clothing). The planets didn't align to get her in bed, but i would have wrapped it up and fukked the hell out of her. She will probably be at the party next weekend, maybe I'll still have an opportunity to hit it.....

Back in the 80's and early 90's my business partner was SO scared of getting AIDS, he later told me that he passed up many an opportunity to have sex because of it.

And now it all turned out to be a big lie.

I'm not saying STD's are a lie, or that you shouldn't take measures to protect yourself, but some guys go way overboard and are deluding themselves if they think they can actually tell a girl is "clean" or "dirty".

 

[DJDamage]

Back in the 80's and early 90's my business partner was SO scared of getting AIDS, he later told me that he passed up many an opportunity to have sex because of it.

And now it all turned out to be a big lie.

How is that turned out to be a big lie??

.In the 80's and 90's people with AIDS were dying within 2-5 year span after contacting the H.I.V virus. Now thanks to modern medicine people can live with H.I.V virus for close to 10-20 years.

The fact is that you need to be smart about it. If you think that having an orgy vaginal/anal sex without a condom with 3 prostitutes who shoot heroin is a smart thing, then you won't be around for a very long time.

 

[wayword]

And btw, the answer is "yes" unless she is a virgin. Every sexually active woman carries the HPV virus. Most women also have at least oral herpes, genital is like 1 in 4 or 5. Molluscum contagiousum is the std I just got, which popped up in the middle of a 6-mo LTR. Science is pretty clueless about it. Something like 25% of people might carry the mc virus. Although my sores are gone and there is only a tiny chance I could give it to a chick, there is no fvcking way that I am going to tell anyone about it. Being treated like a leper is no fun. My ex-wife and I had a threesome once with one of her friends, and we made the mistake of telling her that my wife had herpes. Then the chick treated me like I had herpes, even though I don't. Telling her about it beforehand was stupid. You pretty much only transmit herpes when there is a sore. I had unprotected sex for 7 years and never got it. And herpes is probably the most likely "yes" answer to your question. If she has it, then you don't want to know about it. It will only fvck with your head.

In other words, a lot of infected guys and girls will NOT tell you they are infected. Unless you see current test results or get tested together, you can't assume anyone is being honest or forthcoming about this!

Honestly, HPV and herpes are epidemic these days...especially amongst the young, hot, slooty "Britney Spears" set.

In fact, most girls I know who got STDs got it from guys who never told them they had it. And vice-versa.

 

[STR8UP]

How is that turned out to be a big lie??

It was way overblown, especially when it comes to straight vaginal sex, which is what most people have.