Do You Approve of Prostitution / Hookers / Escorts?

[Survivor]

No I do not approve. But I think a deeper examination of why men solicit escorts provides deep insight into the many problems we face dealing ALL women.

Prostitution is the oldest application of the Scarcity Principle. But it is not sex that is scarce. A guy can get sex from jacking off.

Men pay prostitutes for the illusion of desire.

But don't get it twisted. A woman's sincere desire IS scarce...as it should be.

But how valuable is her desire? Just because something is scarce does not mean its valuable.

 

[spider_007]

Here is my view:

"Why pay for something that you can have given to you for free?"

your making assumptions here (quiet a big one too.)

 

[OzyBoy]

I would not even touch one with a 10 foot stick. I think sex is something you should only have with someone you want to get serious with. Paying someone for sex i think is just plain wrong, unless you are a deadbeat.

 

[PRMoon]

Those hookers pay some of my taxes. They better damn well get back out on those corners.

The illeal ones I see in the hotel are just as cool because some days I'm not doing jack at work other then shuffeling club passes and talking to security. It's nice to play spot the hooker from time to time and watch them get 86ed. Sometimes the security guards ask us if we've seen any hookers walking about! Makes for a fun day and they'll actually take us to the EDR if it turns out we were right. No a bad way to earn a free meal!

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I believe that every male person should have the right to experience sex, and would believe that there is a woman out there for any guy who is diligently looking for a casual hookup even if there is zero game involved. I know becaused I tried looking for a free casual hookup in November. However, it still felt nice to know that there is a 'last resort' available should, after a month has passed, it's impossible to find a 'natural casual hookup' using all available means to find one, and it sort of takes the stress off of it.

However, the vast majority of people use hooker/escorts to cheat on their girlfriend and spouses. Hookers and prostitutes are dangerous, but escorts appear to be more safer. If you look to soft with a prostitute/hooker, then they could physically hurt you and steal your money. I wouldn't trust them in my car. An escort on the other hand that conducts business from her place or travels, I would feel more comfortable where you can read about reviews on various escort sites about a particular escort so know what the liklihood of being ripped off is.

So, my personal policy, is that, an escort should not be considered unless all available means to hook-up with a person for free has been exausted for at least a month's worth of diligent effort to FIND ONE PERSON, for purpose of a casual hook-up. After a month's effort then the option of using an escort may exist as a last resort, and I cant see any other legitimate reason for it's existance rather than a psychological security blanket that you'll NEVER actually need.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Yes...

I've never used one, but it seems it could work relatively well for social proofing and no-strings-attached sex.

You'd pay a $ 200 /hr escort for social proofing? Would anyone else spend money like that? If it's a prostitute/hooker, then it would be negative social proofing if you take some raggy looking girl with missing teeth that's on drugs out with you, right?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Morally I could care less. In fact, simple prostitution (as opposed to sex slaves) probably helps prevent some crime as it keeps the unbridled rage of some unstable losers in check. It's dirty though, that's for sure.

I dont know if I can fully agree with that concept. Here in Toronto, escort stuff is legal, but you still read about sexual assaults or women getting raped. I have yet to research of such men committing rape or assaults are too poor to use an escort, or the fact is that you cant pay for a 'high' that you can only get in real life. I would doubt that is the motivation for such crimes.

I still think if you put the work in, a casual hookup or relationship with sex is not too difficult to find, after all, women like sex too.

 

[musclyjerk]

It's conveniant, uncomplicated sex.

I would much prefer, if it was just sex I wanted, to pay a quality escort who conducted business from her home.

Finding one of sufficient quality is the difficult part - but they are out there with high price tags. It's a business transaction, but it doesn't mean you can't build a genuine rapport with them. You can both be at ease with each other, what you're doing, making the whole experience pretty damn un-complicated and enjoyable I imagine.

Now, to have sex with a beautiful woman with a cracking figure whom you enjoy the company of, regular, on-demand, whenever you want - that's worth paying for simply for the conveniance in my opinion.

I for one hate complications, and if a beautiful escort who was good at what she did lived close-by and I had the money, I'd be banging her regular to get my rocks off.

There is a whole world of difference from street prostitutes and high quality escorts though.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[Deep Dish]

I've been with two highly paid and very hot, very gorgeous, very fun and sweet ladies. They were great times. They were awesome. I would still call upon the ladies of the night, from time to time, if it wasn't for the cost. Even with those two ladies, I realized I could have vacationed in, say, San Francisco for a week plus airfare. It's hard to justify the cost when there are so many arguably more enriching activities to spend large sums of money.

Tonight is my 27th birthday and god damn I shouldn't have read this thread. I can't afford a birthday present. Lol.

 

[ryannath]

The question was do you approve of prostitution. I do, but I think they should all should get regular checkups for std's like they do in the brothels in Nevada. And to the guys that says that no sex is free. Well, I can say that the last woman I had sex with, I didn't spend a cent on. Well, unless you count the 2.95 for condoms and gas money. I'm not sure if you wanna count that.

 

[amoka]

Do You Approve of Prostitution / Hookers / Escorts?

This is a bias quetion. I don't object to prostituion/Hookers/ nor Escorts. I believe they should be left alone and provide their service to those that need them. I personally won't need one but that does not mean other should not enjoy the service of these individuals. Just like a vegetarian wouldn't need the service of meat-delivery guy....

 

[spider_007]

I think they refer to it as; "THE HOBBY"

http://www.worldsexguide.com/forum/

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

As a man you will be paying for sex in one form or another for the rest of your life. Whether you choose to finance it or pay C.O.D. is entirely up to you, but pay you will.

 

[Vintovka]

Time = money

Sure, I can troll the bars, take a girl on a date a few times and get laid, but I don't have the game/looks/whatever it takes to walk out and find a random girl and have her back at my place in an hour. Just being honest.

Maybe some guy's are into the whole emotional connection and what not more than the physical act of coitus, but that's not me.

Plus, no guilt for not calling the next day!