You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ok think what happens when sun sets at 6 pm, well most people work in the mornings so they dont care how dark or bright it is (most people). Now in the fall when the days are shorter and sun sets at 6 pm people would prefer to get out of work and have more DAYLIGHT so now 6 pm is 7 pm !!Originally posted by backbreaker
I never understood what that ment...
So, just tell me, do I need to set my clock back an hour, or do I need to set it forward... my mom gave me a ****ed up explination one day when I was younger that still hampers me to this day
Thank god. I can't fathom why we still even have daylight savings time. All it means to me is sunset in the afternoon. I just don't understand the mentality behind it- "the days get shorter this time of year....let's make them even shorter!" It's a bunch of bulls*t.Originally posted by Bible_Belt
To further confuse the issue, the US Congress has approved a change in the schedule, effective in 2007. The change will be in Nov and March instead of Oct/April, extending DST by 2 months.
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,173929,00.html
Starting in 2007, daylight time will be extended by an extra four weeks. It will run from the second Sunday in March to the first Sunday in November.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wouldnt that decrease daylight savings time, as we save daylight in teh winter???Originally posted by Bible_Belt
To further confuse the issue, the US Congress has approved a change in the schedule, effective in 2007. The change will be in Nov and March instead of Oct/April, extending DST by 2 months.
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,173929,00.html
Starting in 2007, daylight time will be extended by an extra four weeks. It will run from the second Sunday in March to the first Sunday in November.
dude it makes the day longer, it gives you more time in the evening...Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Thank god. I can't fathom why we still even have daylight savings time. All it means to me is sunset in the afternoon. I just don't understand the mentality behind it- "the days get shorter this time of year....let's make them even shorter!" It's a bunch of bulls*t.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I went one hour early to work.Originally posted by i am me
extra sleep. thank u.........
That's in the summer. It makes the day shorter in the winter.Originally posted by TITANIUM_HeaRT
dude it makes the day longer, it gives you more time in the evening...