"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do you Americans have your time go an hour back today?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DrMetallica
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Centaurion
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penkitten
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backbreaker
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So, just tell me, do I need to set my clock back an hour, or do I need to set it forward... my mom gave me a ****ed up explination one day when I was younger that still hampers me to this day
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
penkitten
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thats why we "fall " back
in the spring time we will set it an hour forward hence "spring" forward
:cheer:
RaWBLooD
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ok think what happens when sun sets at 6 pm, well most people work in the mornings so they dont care how dark or bright it is (most people). Now in the fall when the days are shorter and sun sets at 6 pm people would prefer to get out of work and have more DAYLIGHT so now 6 pm is 7 pm !!
so if you finish work at 5 you have time to get home and get dinner done or whatever just in time to watch sunset !!
Now in the spring sun would set at 10 pm if it wasnt adjusted again, so since many people go to sleep about 10 or shortly after, its changed again.
THERE i tried to explain it !
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,173929,00.html
Starting in 2007, daylight time will be extended by an extra four weeks. It will run from the second Sunday in March to the first Sunday in November.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Thank god. I can't fathom why we still even have daylight savings time. All it means to me is sunset in the afternoon. I just don't understand the mentality behind it- "the days get shorter this time of year....let's make them even shorter!" It's a bunch of bulls*t.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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to anyone who doesn't know, the reason for daylight saving stems back to when most people worked on farms.
some wise man noticed that it was light in the morning, and people where still in bed, so he proposed daylight saving hours so people would get more work done in the day.
Nowadays though, most people live in cities and don't work on farms, and I think would prefer the extra hours daylight in the evening.
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TITANIUM_HeaRT
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wouldnt that decrease daylight savings time, as we save daylight in teh winter???
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dude it makes the day longer, it gives you more time in the evening...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Big Eee Zee
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(europe can suck it.
)and if your reeeeeeally stupid, that was a joke.
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That's in the summer. It makes the day shorter in the winter.
Up until Sunday it would get dark at around 7 PM here. Now it gets dark at about 6.
I read that the reason they had daylight savings time in the spring was to reduce crime. They do it so that less crimes are being committed around 8 or 9 during the summer when it would otherwise be dark.